THE FAMILY ALBUM: Logan’s sofa

The above photo struck a tender, familiar chord with me.

My wonderfully talented and personable cat, Logan, 1994-2011, was absolutely hilarious in all her antics that were all too often human-like.

In my townhouse I had two windows in my living room which evenly matched the length of my sofa with each wide arm directly in the center of each window. This was a most excellent perch for Logan I loved to watch all the comings and going’s of neighbors.

As it neared winter I decided to move the large sofa against a central role so guests would not feel the chill coming from the windows.

Later that evening, I returned to find Logan laying on one of the arms, staring directly into the wall.

I knew she was salty.

“Hey, Logan!”

There wasn’t even a twitch as she continued to cement her glare into the wall.

“How are you doing tonight, Logan?”

She gently thrust her nose into the air without looking at me.

“Did you have a good day?”

Very, very slowly, Logan turned her head in my direction with terribly hateful squinted eyes drilling holes through every inch of my body.

“Logan, do you like your new perch?”

With that, Logan squinted her eyes and opened her mouth for the most agitated response I’d ever heard her offer.

And then she returned to glaring at the wall.

Oh, I do miss my furry little friend of 17 years. She was a great companion who offered more amusement than any pet ever should.

If you think the sofa’s rearrangement pissed her off, this seasonal photo-op always agitated her usually sweet nature.

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MIAGD: Friday Funday, but the fun is in the work

MIAGD: Make it a great day

It’s Friday, which always means it’s to be a “fun day,” but today’s “fun” will be in the work/projects to which I will contribute the bulk of my time.

Last night I attended the opening concert for the newly dedicated Levitt Pavilion in downtown Dayton. It feels like it’s everything you would want it to be for such a public arena. I did however get 45 minutes on my favorite swing at Riverscape.

This morning it’s a store-run for my medications and a mad dash back to the deck to edit and create.

It’s going to be a busy, productive day and I’m determined to make it a great day!

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IN THE SPOTLIGHT: Dayton Levitt Pavilion

It’s here!

The premiere concert is underway with an exciting amount in attendance and joy bursting all around.

Families and friends are picnicking. Groups of family and friends gathered. Folks in chairs, on blankets, on the grass.

It’s like a modern day Norman Rockwell painting of citizens celebrating the Fourth of July or other happy events.

Thank you, Dayton, and to all the folks who made it come true.

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O, FOR HISTORY: Nixon resigns

August 8, 1974, my family was vacationing in Myrtle Beach.

I was in the pool that evening when Mother came to the rail of our second-floor motel room, “Darin!  Hurry!”  I am certain I asked the reason and an exchange of “Just hurry!” ensued.

My mother knew I would not want to miss the unfolding events.  Despite my young age of 9 years, I had followed The Watergate Hearings and other news regarding Nixon’s White House.

I listened to the president’s resignation speech.

The following morning my family curtailed our time at the beach so that I could watch President Nixon’s farewell to his staff and the subsequent oath of office to be taken by Vice-President Ford.

Every time the camera panned across Mrs. Nixon’s face I can remember scouring it for any sense of emotion.  To the end, the gracious woman remained heroically stoic.

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As Air Force One (the SAM 2700 now residing at The National Museum of The United States Air Force) crossed over Missouri, pilot Colonel Ralph Albertazzie learned Vice-President Gerald Ford had been sworn in. Col. Albertzzie contacted the Kansas City Center to request the aircraft’s call sign be changed from Air Force One to SAM 2700.

An aide leaned over to the resigned president to let him know Ford had taken the oath. Nixon nodded, “thank you.”

It was over.

Here are some photographs of that day.  These photos have been etched into our minds and our country’s story.

 

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MY DAY: Moving right along

The day has been productive, again, marching the three previous days of this week.

Endocrinologist appointment:

  • Weight: 219
  • BP: 120/90
  • Blood Panels: Cholesterol and Triglycerides are all in great balance; kidney functioning excellent; A1C is high and my glucosamine is being raised
  • Other than that the doctor and nurse practitioner were impressed with my meal and exercise account I provided on paper, as well as all my efforts to maintain a healthy living regimen
  • Sweet corn was purchased and is prepped for the oven, as is a medley of chopped zucchini, squash, onion, tomato, and spices. Dinner should be quite tasty and refreshing on this slightly muggy afternoon.
  • Tonight is the premiere concert at the new Levitt Center and I’m appreciative of my several friends who were the nucleus of its origins. Bravo.
  • Some photos of Bailey kissing Chief, and a few of Chief with different expressions. Mind you, they’re not terrifically different but I know his expressions and I so love this dependent, yet protective, faithful, exceptionally devoted, and most loving face.
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    MIAGD: Thursday is here

    MIAGD: Make it a great day

    I don’t mind the cooler 67-degree temperature this morning but the dampness from an apparent rain shower throughout the night has everything damp.

    It’s very quiet on the deck. There’s the familiar, practically unheard sounds of construction on the new high school auditorium, next door, but the morning traffic is sparse, much like the singing birds. A mourning dove is cooing in the distance.

    On this date, August 9, 1974, I was vacationing in Myrtle Beach with my parents but up bright and early to watch the farewell speech of resigning President Richard Nixon and the swearing in of Vice-President Gerald Ford who I had just met a week and a half before on the steps of The United States Capitol Building with our congressional representative, Elwood “Bud” Hillis. Having eagerly followed The Watergate Hearings on television, this was a huge day for me.

    A busy day ahead:

    • Endocrinologist appointment
    • Shopping and errands
    • Work on some major projects
    • Attend the premiere concert at the new Levitt Pavilion, downtown
  • Yesterday was extremely satisfying due to my productiveness. I treated myself to 2.5 hours at Riverscape. A quick moving thunderstorm removed me from my favorite swing but I worked from a table beneath the shelter of the massive white tent used for concerts, gatherings, and other events. I still had a great view of the river and the ever changing sky.
  • It’s 7:35 AM and must be moving along. Join me in making it a great day.
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    MIAGD: Productivity on the rise

    MIAGD: Make it a great day

    Yesterday’sw five solid hours of progress was easy work but was mostly organizing and brain work, nonetheless.

    Much was accomplished for two days in just one day. Today, Wednesday, I shall tackle Thursday’s work goals in four different areas.

    Last evening I traveled downtown to Woodland Cemetery for the Walk of Fame tour and again, no one showed. I located two graves (in very muggy air) that piqued my interest over the weekend and then returned to Brown Street to take the bus to the main terminal so I could move on over to The Neon Movies to see 8TH GRADE.

    I exited the theater, stepping in to the most glorious weather. It was camera time!

    This morning began without any sluggishness and I was on the deck by 7:30 AM. I had planned to mow the yard but I’m beneath the pergola as the rain slams against it. I’d heard the marching band taking the field slightly before 9:00 AM and I assume they’ll remain indoors most of the morning.

    It’s 9:25 PM and I’ve five minutes until I hit the goals to be accomplished, today.

    Make it a great day.

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    MIAGD: A productive Tuesday

    MIAGD: Make it a great day

    By 7 AM I was working at my deck table, enjoying the cool breezes that were remnants from last nights thunderstorms.

    I woke to a still overcast sky but could still see this beautiful face near my pillow, ready to shower being with kisses and snuggle for a few extra minutes.

    I’m really proud of the progress I’ve made today. Not only have I completed the tasks I assigned myself for today, I have also completed all the tasks I designed for Wednesday, as well.

    Several times this morning the resident cardinal has visited, perching himself on a branch directly above my deck’s Pergola. He seems to boast no intimidation of my close presence when I look upon him at a close range. A rather friendly sort.

    Since I conducted studio master classes this past Sunday, it’s a non-teaching week. I’ve set myself to tackling several major projects:

    • Work for a professional production company
    • Research and writing on my own projects
    • Prepping the studio for the upcoming academic year scheduling
    • Attending to several household projects
    • Spending much needed time with my three pooches
  • My studio manager spent 45 minutes pouring over studio items before she had to rush back to help serve food at band camp.
  • By 12:30 PM I’d finished lunch of a leftover beef steak and roasted potatoes and a slice of red velvet cake from Kroger.
  • I intend to work until 3:30 PM, exactly 2 hours from now, forging ahead with my designated projects. I’ll then grab a 30 minute nap, feed the dogs, and head downtown to Woodland Cemetery for an historical tour. I am hoping the very low percentage of rain forecast for this evening will not come to pass due to the heat.
  • Despite the mugginess on the deck, the three pooches are enjoying some naptime near my workstation.
  • It’s now 1:34 PM and I need to continue making it a great day.
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    IN THE SPOTLIGHT: Dayton Old Case Files

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    Saturday evening, August 4, I attended Dayton’s Old Case Files sponsored by Dayton’s very own Carillon Park and Dayton History.

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    Outstanding!  Terribly fun!

    Upon arrival, my former student, Laura Jacobs, and I, attending to see my student, Tommy Cole, and friend, Geoff Burkman, found ourselves joining the cast in audience roles.  Laura played the defendant’s mother, and I momentarily played the role of David Giddinger, Dayton’s (1903) City Superintendent of Buildings, agitated that he was not selected to sit on the jury.

    thumbnail (1)The case, reinvented for the wonderful Old Montgomery Courthouse setting, was: Ohio vs. Charles Stimmel.  Stimmel stood accused of murder and my character, David Giddinger, eager to sit on the jury as he had done for the murder conviction of Albert Frantz in 1896, becomes testy before the court upon his immediate expulsion from the jury, aiming his jeers at defense attorney, John E. Egan, a colorful defense attorney.

    thumbnail (2)The 1903 atmosphere became comfortable and seemingly real as eyewitnesses were grilled on the stand before Judge Alvin Kumler, portrayed by Scott Stoney. The scripted testimonies of eyewitnesses and lines from the prosecution and defense, straight from the very transcripts of the case, were neatly woven into a compact, often humorous yet never wavering from the seriousness of the case, play of nearly three hours.

    thumbnail (3)Our contemporary jury found Charles Stimmel, a tall, lanky lad known in town as “Dayton Slim,” was found not guilty; however, the 1903 jury found Stimmel to be guilty and he was led to the electric chair, “Old Sparky,” on July 22, 1904.

     

    Since the play’s end last night around 10:15 PM, I’ve spent a good deal of time investigating the original players in this case.

    Local attorney, and “hot jazz” music master, David Greer, of Bieser Greer & Landis, authored, GOD IS MERCIFUL, a tight account of famed Dayton defense attorney, John E. Egan.

    download” He [Egan] was not a model of personal or professional ethics, had a nose for a fee, and a slight disregard for the clients who retained him. His retentive mind could recite classics at length.  His quick wit, Irish charm, and aggressiveness captured a jury’s attention and seduced or manipulated it for the desired results.  Clarence Darrow tried to get Egan to join him in practice in Chicago.  But Egan was happy in Dayton from Day One, where to the end of his life, he is reputed to have collected his fee at the start of each trial day, walking away from the client mid-trial is the client didn’t pay.”

    Stimmel’s female friend, Rose Shafor, though not a presented character in the presentation, played a terrific role through eyewitness accounts.  The real Rose Shafor was actually in jail for contempt of court for refusing to testify in the case.  In the end, it was discovered Rose Shafor was the head of the famous Cook Gang which later evolved into another notorious Miami Valley gang.

    An interesting side note: there were two men involved in the Allen & Emmger feed store murder, but only Stimmel supposedly fired the two shots. The much shorter side-kick was never identified, however, later speculation identified Rose Shafor as her boyfriend’s partner, dressed as a man.

    The Old Montgomery Courthouse, dedicated in 1850, turned its intended use over to the much larger “new” courthouse in 1884.  The newer structure was torn down years ago and the current Montgomery County Courthouse is several blocks west of what is now known as Courthouse Square.

    Keep your eyes opened for advertisements of next year’s Dayton Old Case Files presentation at The Old Montgomery County Courthouse.

    F A N T A S T I C   F U N !

    Interestingly… while this trial was taking place, the Brothers Wright were changing the course of history at Kitty Hawk. 

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    MIAGD: It’s Sunday

    MIAGD: Make it a great day

    Normally my Sundays are a bit on the quiet side as I prepare to start my teaching week in the early afternoon; however, today is far from it.

    I spent last night downtown at Carillon Park|Dayton History’s “Dayton’s Old Case Files,” held at The Old Montgomery County Courthouse, and I so much fun. Kudos to this annual program that is usually off my radar but thanks to my students, Tommy Cole, and friend, Geoff Burkman, it got on my radar this year, and for the upcoming years.

    I dined late at 419 Diner with a delicious chicken hoagy before heading home.

    This Sunday morning I’m taking a few quiet moments to relax before cleaning the house (mostly sweeping), and prepping for three master classes.

    I’m ready for today and intend on making it great.

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    MY DAY: The Oregon District

    I love the intersection of Fifth and Patterson streets in downtown Dayton.

    At this intersection you’ll find The Neon movies, Smokin’ Barbecue, Arby’s leading through the train overpass into the exciting little world of Dayton’s historical Oregon District.

    Tonight was one of those nights where there was an excitement in the air while walking through the district. In a few weeks, the college students will have all returned to the area and the Oregon District will be even more alive and festive.

    I’m not much for the bar scene but I do love the restaurants and unique shops that make up this area. But the best part is the people who work in this district and everyone who supports it.

    History. Music. Food. Art. Specialties. People.

    It doesn’t get much bette.

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    MIAGD: Saturday on the deck

    MIAGD: Make it a great day

    The breeze blowing through the deck is not strong enough to move the wind chimes but it’s refreshing.

    Not much on my schedule for today:

    • Writing
    • Dinner with a former student
    • “Dayton’s Old Case Files” with a current student in the cast

    That’s it. An easy Saturday.

    Last night I hurriedly returned downtown for Art In The City which seemed to be well received by the community.

    Since the musical I was to see was sold out I spent a good chunk of time visiting with Tom and Amy Dallis inside the lobby of Kettering Tower. Amy had some of her photographs on display for sale and while she attended to business, Tom and I settled so much other business in our wide reaching conversation.

    I hurried over to Riverscape and despite the large crowd gathered for more AITC entertainment and food, my favorite swing was open! Woo hoo!

    90 minutes of “Me time” on the banks of The Great Miami River at sunset. I was surprised, the last thirty minutes, by a visit from a dear friend, Kim Koehler, who I’d directed in several shows many years ago. It was so great catching up with Kim.

    It’s time to write. My neighbor, Bob, is busy with the mowing of his yard and our neighbor we share, Kay. Across the street, my 93 year old neighbor lady, Kate, is busy in her yard!

    My neighbor, Kate, 93, still busy in her yard every day and always smiling as she works.

    Here’s to a great Saturday! Make it a great day!

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    MIAGD: Funday Friday

    MIAGD: Make it a great day

    It’s 3:30 PM and my Friday Funday is moving to the closing side of the day.

    I was up and on the deck by 8:15 AM with the dogs fed and my own breakfast before me. I completed a few items and went inside a few minutes and returned to a possum on the deck near my writing area.

    Damn!

    I contacted Kettering services and animal control and 45 minutes later they responded saying there was nothing they could do but if I wanted to remove it to the curb and let them know my address they’d do their best to retrieve it.

    I disposed of it myself.

    By 10:45 AM I was on the bus for downtown where I dined at a Chinese restaurant, took a letter to the Dayton post office, strolled across the eastern end of town takin photos, and completed the downtown journey at 2nd Street Market where I purchased some sweet corn, a zucchini, a tomato and some cucumbers. And, the bonus was running into Amy Dallis!

    I returned home by 2:30 PM, attended to some studio items, and in about 45 minutes it will be time to feed the dogs before it’s time to shower, shave and dress only to return downtown for Art In The City, and then a musical.

    The deck is a little warm at 85-degrees but a nice consistent breeze keeps it cooler.

    I’ve made it a great day, so far, and will continue to do so the remainder of the day.

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    MY DAY: Logan’s hat

    Throwback Thursday.

    Me with baby Logan in the Centerville americana parade, July 4, 1994, 25 years ago.

    Logan loved her little straw hat and would go to the closet, pull it out and bring it to me so she could wear it on our walks.

    Logan actually walked on a leash, and loved it.

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    O, FOR HISTORY: Bobby Kennedy & Mangas Cafeteria in my hometown

    April 23, 1968, 50 years ago this past spring, the newly announced presidential candidate, Bobby Kennedy, and his wife, Ethel, made a visit to my home town, Elwood, Indiana.

    During his visit, Senator Kennedy and his entourage dined at Mangas Cafeteria on the northwest corner of Main and Anderson streets.

    [From The Elwood Call-Leader, 27 June 1988] Mangas Cafeteria was founded by Jack and George Mangas. Jack, who came to the United States from Greece in 1916 at the age of 16, move to Elwood in 1928 with his wife Theodora and opened the Sweet Shop. A year later he sent for his brother George, then 25, to help him manage the shop.

    Jack and Theodora opened The Sweet Shop at 119 S. Anderson St. February 4, 1928. In 1935 the shop moved across the street where it was located until it closed in 1948.

    Mangas cafeteria was opened by the Mangases less than a month before the attack on Pearl Harbor, and the cafeteria offered free meals to those who donated blood, but war bonds, or served overseas.

    Everyone in both families pitched in and helped at the cafeteria, including the children who stood on stools to help.

    The Annex on the west side of the building was built in 1942, and the Grecian Room was added in 1958.

    It was not uncommon to always see lines of people wrapping around the building’s corner down the street, especially during noon on Sundays. Once inside, the line continued along the very large windows that looked out onto the very busy Main Street. After the line passed through the food line, on the right, directly across from the cash register, sat Mrs. Mangus. She was as lovely of face as she was of heart and kindness, and Mrs. Mangas always wore a lovely flower behind her ear.

    I grew up a few houses from Mr. and Mrs. Mangas who later welcomed their daughter, Georgia Skalkotos and her family, husband Nick, and children Demetrious and Marina. I was fortunate to grow up with Demetrious and Marina, and I am still thrilled to remain in contact with them via social media.

    One of the highlights of my youth was being asked by Mrs. Skalkotos to walk Marina to school for the first several days. As Marina entered the six grade, Demetrious was already in middle school and I was in the six grade at Washington Elementary school. I was proud and honored to be of service to my neighbors, but terribly surprised when I received a Mangas Cafeteria postcard with the words written on the back, “please offer Darin a free meal at the cafeteria with our thanks. Georgia.”

    I still have the postcard. I did have my meal but asked to keep the postcard as a souvenir.

    Elwood had two grand moments in its history when visited by two presidential candidates, hometown boy Wendell L. Willkie, the 1940 Republican candidate opposing incumbent president, Franklin Roosevelt, and 1968 Democratic candidate Senator Robert F. Kennedy.

    While the 1940 visit garnered international attention, the Kennedy visit to Mangas Cafeteria is still a much discussed memory of many Elwoodites, today.

    How fortunate were we to have the Mangas family serving as ambassadors.

    Read more about Bobby Kennedy’s Indiana tour at Anderson Herald Bulletin: Robert Kennedy visited Anderson, Elwood, 1968

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    MIAGD: Thursday is here

    MIAGD: Make it a great day

    It’s Thursday and my summer is still going but the teaching schedule is reduced due to upcoming master classes and Fifth Week (break).

    Yesterday afternoon I received a text message from a former student and his mother, Ryan Crouch and Felicia Crouch, asking if I had some time to go shoot photos. YES! Despite the fact Phylicia lives on the other side of Lincoln Park it’s been several years since I’ve seen her. Ryan works at the Bowling Green hospital which makes it a little more difficult to see him.

    At 6 PM, after some tight, loving hugs, we were off to Hills and Dales Park to shoot around the John Patterson statue and then over to the pond. After three hours of photo taking and chatting, we moved on to Graeter’s in Oakwood for some cold treats and even more chatting.

    This was one of the best treats of my year.

    It’s 9:15 AM, Thursday morning, the yard is in drastic need of mowing, and I am in absolutely no mood to tackle still wet grass.

    There’s so many other things I could be doing, however there’s so many other things I really wish to do that are not sure related.

    We will see what wins out the day! But, be assured: I will be making it a great day.

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    OF INTEREST: Laughter

    I was blessed to have been born into a family that understood the value of continually practicing laughter.

    Even during the dark or sad times we always allowed laughter to be a constant companion.

    Some of my all-time favorite memories Our times spent with my maternal grandmother, Donna Clary Barmes. Grandma was the ultimate laugher and the ultimate instigator of laughing, especially when we oughtn’t be laughing.

    Church services were always our most wretched times trying to stifle our laughter. Most often, I sat between my grandparents, even well into my college years when I was home. If the minister said something that tickled either my grandmother or myself, the torture began. We knew that Grandpa Leroy would be wholly disapproving of our behavior which made it even more difficult, and even funnier to battle.

    I don’t know how many times she and I sat with our chins pressed to our chests, biting our lips, and fighting with every ounce of strength within us to suppress a potential burst of laughter.

    Sometimes, my grandmother would just step out of the given stricture of behavior, turn and look at me with crossed eyes. Naturally she would not get the disapproving look from my grandfather, but I would.

    Grandma Donna is no longer with us, but her spirit, especially the laughter she enforced, is ever present in my day.

    Thank you for the laughs!

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    MIAGD: Wet Wednesday

    MIAGD: Make it a great day

    Tuesday was a complete washout with rain off and on the entire day and Wednesday seems to be a bit backed up with wetness lingering.

    Tuesday was busy but mildly relaxing. Today will be pretty much the same.

    It is damp all over but the center of the deck is quite dry save for the dampness in the air.

    The Kettering lawn folks were out mowing the medians bright and early at 7:00 AM. I couldn’t be aggravated upon hearing the sound so early because the workers do keep the city looking nice. The perks of living on the city’s main drag is that it’s always going to receive slightly better attention with the city government complex, Lincoln Park, and the Fraze Pavilion all on the next block over.

    A most welcome sound is the crisp rat-a-tat-tat of the high school percussion starting the rehearsal day. Life around the high school campus is beginning to come to life, more and more each day. Soon, the sound of school buses and sounds of teacher car doors opening and closing, and beeping for locking, will be a symphony in the parking strip next to my house.

    It’s nearly 9:00 AM and time to start my teaching day, making this my Summer Friday.

    Make it a great day!

    Photos of The Kids.

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    MIAGD: The sounds, colors, and fun were soaring…

    MIAGD: Make it a great day

    DSC00019Monday evening was spent in the company of three dear friends and several thousand spectators watching amazing youth from all across the United States, and even The Netherlands, treating us to some of the most outstanding, creative, and innovative avenues of music, marching and maneuvering, and entertainment.

    I attended my first Soaring Sounds Drum Corps competition at Centerville High School with some college friends in the summer of 1985. Five years later I would be attending the competition just weeks before moving to Dayton.  In twenty-eight years I’ve attended no less than twenty-four Soaring Sounds.

    DSC00343Monday morning I received a message from Debbie McCutcheon indicating she and Jim had two additional tickets available for Soaring Sounds, and would I, and a friend, wish to enjoy those tickets.  Oooh… well, I had several Monday evening students… let me see if I can work out some rescheduling.  Thank you, Monday evening students, for being gracious to accommodate me in this personal reunion.  

    The familiar voice of a much beloved former student, also a canine crew member, and now, college student, Alex Loree, sounded in the front room of The Haasienda at 5:00 DSC00186PM.  I’ve only seen Alex once since his August 2017 departure for Bowling Green State University, and I’ve not been happier for a reunion in so long.  Ironically, I’d been thinking about another recent former student, Adam Julian, now a sophomore at Cincinnati Conservatory of Music, and I was fortunate to see him at Soaring Sounds, too!  Score for the old teacher!  

    Alex and I literally picked up where we left off and enjoyed a meal at Elsa’s, and then on to Soaring Sounds where we enjoyed the competition and a nice post-show chat until nearly midnight.

    DSC00287Soaring Sounds… incredible.  As in the past 30+ years, the Centerville High School band boosters, and their acquired crews augmented this huge, wonderful event with their warm, considerate hospitality.  At the end of the competition, several dads on golf carts were exceptionally generous with their time and assistance getting a friend to the other side of the baseball fields to where we were parked.  I know the dads were probably a bit tired from long hours which is so common with these events but you would have thought they were just starting out their day with personable and eager willingness to be of service.  Kudos, CHS Band Dads!

    DSC09994I remember my very first DCI competition I attended with my high school band director, Paula Simmons, and her college roommate, Pamela Smith Wishmeyer.  I can remember the sensation that rushed through my 15-year-old body upon hearing the first blast of brass that evening.

    I still get that same rush upon the first blast of brass… Who am I kidding?  It doesn’t end until the last corps finishes.

    Sitting on the front row allowed me ample opportunity for some pretty good candid shots and a super treat of The Cavaliers presenting “Encore” – a final presentation before awards are announced – directly in front of us.  In fact, the field commanders stood within reach.

    The Cavalier Field Commanders during Encore

    Thank you, Jim & Debbie McCutcheon, for sharing your additional tickets, and thank you, Alex Loree, for continuing to be a part of my life!

    I have a busy day ahead and I am spurred on by last night’s Soaring Sounds competition, surrounded with three dear folks in my life, and the many others I was fortunate to see and quickly visit.  It’s kind of easy to think of making it a great day after all that!

     

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    MIAGD: Monday… just Monday

    MIAGD: Make it a great day

    It’s a beautiful Monday morning on the deck at 7:15 AM with some sprinkles still remaining from the rain throughout the night.

    It’s a busy teaching day with two new students taking some already filled slots of students on vacation or at band camp.

    My grass is in terrible need of mowing and I was hoping to complete it Tuesday; however, it appears Tuesday will be a washout with rain.

    It’s a beautiful day. Despite the sinus pressure I’m still going to make it a great day.

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    OF INTEREST: The Pinnacle

    I’ve always loved this spot which is the crown of woodland cemetery overlooking the city of Dayton below.

    I first discovered this lovely location in 1991, almost one year after moving to Dayton. A number of times, I would go hiking through the cemetery with my cat, Logan.

    In 2000, it became my lunch spot with my pal, Flyer, who loved visiting the cemetery for hikes. We’d grab something from Burger King, down on the college strip and drive up to the fairly flat pinnacle to eat our lunch while taking in the view of Dayton beyond.

    Flyer loved this spot.

    I do miss my old lunch retreat, and my pal, but what a gorgeous addition this gazebo is to Woodland Cemetery and its many friends.

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    MIAGD: Sitting on Erma’s rock

    MIAGD: Make it a great day

    It’s July 29, a beautiful Sunday morning, but also a bittersweet day as I remember my dear little pal, Flyer, who passed away five years ago this morning.

    With only 19 minutes to spare, I decided to go on an adventure.

    I quickly trimmed my hair, brushed off any excess hair, dressed, brush my teeth, and caught the No. 17 bus to downtown.

    I stepped off at the stop sandwiched between Miami Valley hospital and the former Montgomery county fairgrounds. It was a nice leisurely stroll the few blocks through UD campus housing to Woodland Cemetery.

    Once inside the cemetery I paid a visit to a dear “little friend,” Emily Crouch, the infant daughter of Felicia and John, and sister to Ryan and Molly. With each Woodland Cemetery visit my first order of business is to always pass through the mausoleum to visit Emily.

    I ventured across the road to where Erma and Bill Bombeck rest. Near “the Arizona rock” is a memorial bench with two bowler hats, honoring the brothers Wright. These memorials are scattered throughout Dayton at significant points of interest. A robin redbreast was perched upon one of the hats. In so many ways it was a fitting rest stop for the little fellow.

    I decided I would compose my principal blog post for the day seated on the memorial stone honoring Ms. Bombeck. I’ve often seen college students from The University of Dayton, next-door, and others, seated on this rock, reading, writing, listening to music, or just meditating.

    I decided this would be a perfect spot to just relax and write. And, so far, it was a perfect choice.

    My view of the Huffman family tomb on the crest of the hill just inside the entrance of Woodland cemetery.

    Due to vacations and band camps I’ve two lessons today. I normally run the studio from 1:00 PM – 8:00 PM on Sunday, but today is adding in some respite time.

    In the next few minutes I will decide whether to remain seated on the Arizona rock or hike up the hill to visit The Wright Family. I’m rather comfortable where I am.

    Always make it a great day!

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    MY DAY: Ending the day at Riverscape

    I spent a total of seven hours working on the deck, and I am exhilarated with all my progress.

    I fed the dogs, quickly showered and dressed, caught bus 17 downtown, ate dinner, caught a production of JESUS CHRIST, SUPERSTAR, and moved to Riverscape with Cody where we are sitting on my swing overlooking the river while taking in the last strains of Celtic Festival’s second of three days.

    At first we were seated by the beautiful and epic sculptured tribute to Charles Kettering where I ended up serving as an impromptu photographer for over half a dozen couples or families trying to selfie themselves in the oversized backdrop.

    I think the best part about being at the tail end of this festival is watching all the alcohol-absorbed folks believing they are skilled Irish dancers!

    Ahhhh… this is absolute heaven.

    Cheers to my Clary and Daugherty family and ancestors.

    A wee clip of the band nearest us…

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    MIAGD: A low-key Saturday

    MIAGD: Make it a great day

    I am calling this Saturday, “low key,” and I am already taking bets with myself as to how long this title will last.

    On my schedule for today:

    • Some strategic planning prep work for a professional theatre group to which I belong
    • Write an Eagle Scout recommendation letter for a recent former student
    • Research and write
    • See a show tonight
    • I would love to bounce back downtown for Celtic Festival but I don’t wish to be entombed in the crowds that will visit today

    Tomorrow, July 29th will be the fifth anniversary of Flyer’s passing.  She was the best dog and I don’t believe I will ever stop missing her.  I have the best trio of furry critters, now, but Flyer will always hold a special place in my heart.

    On to my day.  It’s already 10:30 AM and I feel too many hours have already escaped me!

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    Flyer visiting Wilbur Wright’s gravesite for the final time.

     

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    OF INTEREST: We don’t meet by accident

    I found this article to be of deep interest. I’ve always believed each of us have reasons for moving, staying, leaving the lives of others. I don’t necessarily like the word, “cosmic,”‘to describe items connected with myself, but prefer “spiritual connections.”

    We Don’t Meet Anyone By Accident – 5 Types Of Cosmic Connections

    In this world that we are lucky to live in, every single meeting and chance encounter serves a greater purpose. Absolutely nothing happens by chance!

    Sometimes people come into our lives who are not meant to be forever. Sometimes they are intended only to teach us a lesson or something along those lines. We are supposed to be open to these experiences and all that comes with them, even the pain.

    Some of the paths we have to go down are rougher than others, but that is okay. All of the roads we travel down are essential to our life journey. Life is truly a magical mystery to us all, and sometimes, if we are lucky the Universe helps us out without us noticing.

    These are the five types of cosmic connections you will encounter on your journey:

    1. The ones meant to awake us

    These people show the difference between expectation and reality. Once you meet this type of person, you never realise this particular person will ruin your life. Now you wish that you would not meet him/her.

    Remember not everyone you encounter is positive; negativity is important when it comes to growing as well. The Universe understand the limit that you can tolerate and it knows how far you can manage negativity in your life. Once you learn a lesson, you will be able to move on from this type of toxic person.

    2. Those who remind us

    Some people are just stopping by in our lives. These people are not our twin-flames, we can’t put them in this group, but are extremely important when it comes to the power of the universe and the cosmic connections. These people will be thrown at us by the universe to remind us of our goals, to help us remain focus and prevent us to fall into the abyss of the dynamic modern lifestyle.

    3. Those that help us grow

    Some people are not going to make us discover new things about ourselves, but some of them will help us grow as a person.

    These are our guides and certainly our soulmates. You won’t grow as a person on your own, but both of you will grow and ‘reshape’ in something different. Something that knows no ‘You’ and ‘I’ but only ‘WE’ and it’s something holy and powerful, something that describes the cosmic connection at its best.

    4. People that hold space for us

    Some people appear very shortly in our lives. They may just appear for a while, in a coffee shop, on the street, in the subway… You won’t be able to establish a strong connection with them, but you will feel the past-life connection. The small-talks with these people have a purpose- to hold space for us.

    These people will always cheer you up and make you feel better about yourself. Don’t forget those small talks- they may have a way bigger meaning.

    5. Those who stay

    Their first sign is that they are very scarce and almost impossible to find. However, if you do meet them, they will stick to you till the end. They can be in any form – friends, family, life partners, and mentors.

    They are the ones who have the maximum impact on you and vice versa. They’re extremely valuable as they rarely come in our lives.

    The best way to find them is to patiently wait. They usually share identical views and dreams as you, so it’d be easier to connect and share an enthusiasm for each other’s dreams.

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