MY DAY: Goodnight

A former student, Rob, sent this song to me in honor of Flyer, who, once again, seems to be sinking rather quickly.

Dry away the tears
Lay aside your fears
No more pain, for my love
I am here, now go to sleep

And when the angels come
I know that they will treat you well
That they will pull you through
And lift you up from all that’s held you down

There’s a heaven up there
And it waits just for you
So close your eyes and dream
And there will be a world you once knew

A world without the pain
That has stuck with you for far too long
A world that does contain a love like mine
To watch you grow strong

And when my time arrives
Please wait and make a place for me
For when I do arrive
Your face should be the first face I see

So dry away the tears
Lay aside your fears
No more pain, for my life
It is time
Now go to sleep

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MY DAY: Mundane Monday

I can’t say whether or not it was a good Monday, or a bad Monday, because it was neither. It was simply a mundane Monday. Grant it, there were a number of things that actually made a good Monday, but the day moved along in an ordinary fashion.

My endocrinologist wants me to consider a new drug to combat my diabetes which is still being investigated by the FDA. It is called exenatide. This particular drug stimulates the pancreas to increase insulin. A very small titanium disc which is about one and three-quarter inches long, and an eighth of an inch wide, would be inserted under the skin of my abdomen. Despite the invasive nature of this particular treatment, I am strongly considering it. Not only does it from the pancreas to increase The insulin, it also slows down the stomach’s process, thus decreasing appetite. I rather like this part of it.

I have a number of friends traveling across Europe, with quite a few actually in the British Isles. Another friend is enjoying a vacation in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan. I am enjoying everyone’s vacations through photographs posted on Facebook. My friend, Jeff Carter, is one of the best about documenting his voyages which to take him to all parts of our country, as well as all parts of the world. I live vicariously through Jeffrey’s numerous travels. I just read through a wonderful email from a friend describing the beauty of the area in which he is staying. I now have several places added to my ever-growing list of potential future vacation destinations. It seems as though most of my travel desires lead to the Eastern side of our country, especially where sites connected to the American history are involved. However, I am now eager to investigate some of our Northern territory.

Navi and Chief did not get their evening walk. After working from my desk for several hours after teaching, I moved to the guest bedroom to take a 30 minute nap at 10 o’clock. I do not recall hearing the alarm on my iPhone, and slept until midnight. The kids were let out in the back, and I took Flyer out to the front. The past two days the old girl has grown seemingly weaker, and still refuses to eat any food I set before her. She will take a few pieces of ham throughout the day, that is about it. I did buy some chewy treats which she seems to like. However, she is very hesitant about eating anything. Thankfully, she continues to drink a lot of water.

Tomorrow is a terribly long teaching day. I fear that my nap will prohibit me from a full, restful nights sleep.

From DLJH’s iPhone
“Make it a great day!”

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MY DAY: Reflections

My day got off to a much later start than to what I am accustomed. By 8:30 AM with Navi and Chief still sound asleep, I began stirring. The additional sleep did feel refreshing, but he had a sense of wasting my day.

There really wasn’t much to my day, but I do feel accomplished. I spent a good two hours cleaning out the attic and portions of the basement, and took a van load of items to Goodwill. I love the emotional liberation that comes with cleaning out accumulated items that are no longer necessary.

While shopping at Kroger, I ran into the mother of a former student, Barb O’Neill. We had a great little chat, and even took a picture to send her daughter, Katie, now living in New York City.

The afternoon and evening were spent getting ready for the next three days of solid teaching. I have several friends touring the British Isles, and another friend vacationing on Michigan’s Upper Peninsula. I’ve been enjoying their photographs posted on Facebook, and reading some of their blog entries.

I took the kids on our evening stroll, but found myself detained by the fountains in Lincoln Park. For some reason, I just felt compelled to sit listening to the water splashing about while reflecting on life, and the future. The kids were actually patient, and laid down to watch the lights and the water. We ventured around the big pond, and through the wooded area before returning to the fountains again.

As this evening winds down I find myself engaged in some very meaningful emails with a dear friend. It’s funny how certain paths cross, Yet so comforting, and reassuring.

My reflection on this day? Life is good.

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MY DAY: Spontaneous Adventures

I grew up in a family that was accustomed to taking spontaneous trips. I can remember one Friday morning in the summer of 1973, when my grandparents joined our family for breakfast and someone mentioned that they would love to go to Holland Michigan. Within 30 minutes, small bags were packed, snacks and food gathered, the car loaded and the entire family settled in for a weekend trip to Holland Michigan.
All through college, and long into my adult life, I still maintained this practice of spontaneity. Fortunately, my college friends were always game, as was my friend, Susan Cook, who actually urged me to be more spontaneous with road trips.
One early evening in June 2000, I was eating supper with several teacher friends and Debbie McCutcheon. After the waiter took our order I announced to the group that I was going to travel to the Outer Banks for a quick trip. The first question was, “when?” I smiled and explained that I would be taking off the minute I finished supper and paid my bill.
And travel to the Outer Banks I did! It was a three-day trip, and I thoroughly enjoyed myself. Ah! Those days before sons and dogs.
My sons quickly became use to this spontaneity, and adapted. In fact, it was nothing but a great adventure.
DSC08085This morning, I quickly embarked on a little trip about 45 minutes southeast ofDSC08087 Kettering. For quite a while I’ve wanted to visit the old Native American earth works and burial mounds located in Fort Ancient near Lebanon Ohio. For some reason, the trip ended up being one that bombed in interest and enthusiasm. I found the museum to be cumbersome with the tons and tons of placards – way too much reading for me in a museum.  I only settled down to watch one of the videos so the sweet ladies in admissions wouldn’t wonder why I sped through the museum in record time.
I returned home and ended up taking a two hour nap. While napping, tremendous thunderstorms tore through the Miami Valley, and the one glimpse of Shroyer Road looked like a raging river. Upon waking, my spontaneous wanderlust was still kicking around. Within seconds I knew exactly what I wanted to do.
DSC08091DSC08107At 4:45 PM, after feeding The Kids, I loaded Flyer into the van, and we were headed down I–75 toward Okeana, Ohio. http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Okeana,_Ohio.  Okeana is located in southwestern Butler County, just a few miles from the Indiana State line.  I’ve visited here several times before, and love traveling through the rolling hills of southern Ohio, which is filled with some of the most beautiful scenery.
In the early 1800s, my Jolliffe ancestors moved from the Kanawah Valley of what is now Charleston West Virginia to Southestern Butler DSC08111County in Ohio. My fourth great grandparents are buried in George Cemetery just outside of Okeana. I’ve been to the grave-sites of Thomas and Jemima Jolliffe before, DSC08120but for some reason cannot locate my photographs of the quickly fading information on the tombstones. Their son, my third great-grandfather, moved to Decatur County, Indiana in the 1840s. Ironically, his farm was very near a neighboring farm that belonged to my mother’s side of the family. Quite possibly, this 3rd great-grandfather on the Jolliff side knew my 3rd great-grandmother, Mary Jane Cline, on my Barmes side. 
DSC08109Flyer and I explored the burial hill of George Cemetary, and sadly, many of the grave stones have lost their engravings, entirely.  I am sure that being located on a high, round hill with full exposure to the elements has played its toll.  I could no longer identify the stones for my 4th great-grandparents.  I kind of felt like the character from book/stage/screen, Mary Lenox, in THE SECRET GARDEN when she tells Dickon, “The garden is dead.”  At least I know they rest there.
DSC08146By 6:30 PM, the unpleasant lady on my iPhone’s GPS was guiding me toward Oxford, Ohio, and the gorgeous campus of Miami University.  Flyer and I walked the formal gardens beforeDSC08161 turning back toward Kettering.
As we neared Austin Pike exit, I noticed a beautiful sunset.  There are people who are storm chasers.  I am a sunset chaser.  I turned off Austin Pike and followed the orange rays into the country where I quickly snapped some shots.
This was an incredibly enjoyable day.  No business attended, no house or yard work (tomorrow, unfortunately).  Just wonderful scenery, a touch to the past with my ancestors, a gorgeous college campus, spending time with my favorite girl (Flyer), and a sunset that capped off this refreshing day!
And that was MY DAY!
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MY DAY: Fancy free & Footloose

The week did not feel exceptionally long, although Flyer’s most recent dip in health did add a good deal of worry to the entire week. The old girl seems to have bounced back, but still seems a tad bit weakened.

The teaching week ran smoothly, and I began my four days off by meeting Lea Loree for coffee at Bagel Café on Thursday morning. Thursday evening Suzanne Grote and I had dinner together. This morning, I met retired music teacher – who has never really retired – Raymonde Rougier at Awesome Yogurt. Shortly after that meeting, Sue Branson stopped by to see Flyer. At 7 PM I was on my way to Springfield Ohio to see the musical, Footloose, with director friends Suzanne Grote and Becky Brunsman.

I honestly don’t know what the next two days hold. I would love to be able to settle down to some writing, but there are numerous yard items that need completed, and the inside of the house could stand some attention.

It is so delightful that several of my friends are sharing their European trip photographs on Facebook. Jeff Carter is exploring Great Britain, while Ashley and Emily Webb are enjoying their time in Ireland. They seem to be having a great time, and are sharing some absolutely beautiful pictures of their travels.

One day, I will be sharing pictures of European vacations.

From DLJH’s iPhone
“Make it a great day!”

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MY DAY: Flyer – Long Live The Queen

Wednesday night, Flyer seemed to have a little more pep, but still not much. I let her lick off of my salad plate when I finished eating, and added water so that she would drink. And she did.

The Kids and I slept upstairs, and the first thing Chief did when we hit the main floor a few minutes ago was to race ahead to my study to check on Flyer. I heard this peculiar noise from him. It wasn’t really a cry, but it was just a strange sound. I immediately thought the worst. When I got into my study there was no Flyer; she had moved to the guest bedroom.

When I entered the room she still seemed weak, but her tail was wagging a lot.

She went outside with the kids to potty, and though she moved a good deal slower than in past weeks, she found her way around the yard and up the steps with ease. While The Kids continued to explore the backyard, I tried to coax Flyer to eat. She turned her nose up at the food I laid down in front of her, but she did go over to the water tank and drink quite a bit from it. That was a huge relief for me.

Several times she has come over to where I am sitting in my study just to nudge my leg, and to get some head scratches and some petting in. What has been neat to see, is when she approaches me, Chief, who is usually laying at my feet, gets up to allow her easier access to me. I am loving this dog more and more each day. He seems to be gathering all the wonderful qualities of Flyer – I think he is going to become an incredible dog, and perhaps rise to the occasion even more once Flyer is gone. I think he completely gets the pecking order around here, and is just biding his time as the heir apparent.

I guess it’s not that much different than the royal family of Great Britain. I know we’re still excited to be saying, “long live the queen [Flyer].”

Will continue to keep you posted.

From DLJH’s iPhone
“Make it a great day!”

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MY DAY: Droopy Wednesday

Today is predicted to reach 93-degrees.  Tomorrow, we have a cool front approaching as the temperature dips to 92-degrees.  I can hardly wait.

Flyer continues to sink; this latest episode began Sunday night.  Last night she refused food, and this morning she would not eat, nor drink.  I am putting an A-plan, and B-plan into action.

Last night, The Kids (Navi & Chief) and I took a four mile walk around the neighborhood.  Since Flyer has not been interested, or capable in walking these past few days, The Kids and I are exploring longer distances, and for them, new sniffing ground.  This morning’s route was a bit longer, too, but still stayed within the 30 minute time frame as planned.  These are more like the power-walks I prefer, yet, I do miss having Flyer with us on these group outings.

Tuesday evening kept me busy with the passing of multiple lengthy emails between a very dear friend and my self.  I cannot even imagine how many emails crossed through the cyberspace, although I could count them.  The emails began around 8:30pm, and the last one written, which I received upon waking this morning, was sent at 1:51am.  We discussed music, composing, life, our friendship, and seemed to enjoy one another’s e-company. I do hope this friend always knows just how much they are treasured, and loved.

The long teaching day is about to commence.  Yesterday began with a backed-up toilet, a bathtub with water standing, and a leak in the basement, all centered around this area.  The plumber and his assistant were here by 9:30am (I had showered in the basement), and within 45-minutes, after climbing onto the roof and working through the vent, the problem was solved.

The Air Force Band of Flight is to perform at the Fraze Pavilion tonight.  As much as I would love to attend a concert with one of my favorite ensembles, the heat and humidity is acting as a strong deterrent.  And, it all depends on Flyer’s condition.

Now, on to the day…

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MY DAY: After A While

AFTER A WHILE

Veronica Shoftshall, 1971

After a while you learn the subtle difference
between holding a hand and chaining a soul
and you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning
and company doesn’t always mean security.

And you begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts
and presents aren’t promises
and you begin to accept
your defeats
with your head up
and your eyes ahead
with the grace of woman,
not the grief of a child

And you learn to build
all your roads on today
because tomorrow’s ground
is too uncertain for plans
and futures have a way
of falling down in mid-flight.

After a while you learn
that even sunshine burns
if you get too much
so you plant your own garden
and decorate your own soul
instead of waiting for someone
to bring you flowers.

And you learn
that you really can endure
you really are strong
you really do have worth
and you learn
and you learn
with every goodbye, you learn…

Then After “after a while” you change and build your hopes again. And pray that maybe this time it will be different. And you hold on to that hope because in the end that’s all you really have..

AFTER “AFTER A WHILE”

After ‘after a while’
You want to hold a hand not to chain a soul but
to enjoy its company,
and you want someone’s lips to kiss,
not because you are lonely but because you are
happy, and you want to give presents
and you want to make promises.

After ‘after a while’
You begin to accept your defeats like an adult,
but like a child, will want someone to listen and care,
and you want someone who will build roads with
you today so maybe you can pave the way for your future together.

After ‘after a while’
You want someone’s sunshine and warmth,
but also accept the rain and the cold,
and you want to give flowers picked from your own garden.

And when your garden is picture perfect,
you want it to be more than a picture
even if it means having to be imperfect
because you want someone in it to stay and to live.

Then you’ll see that there is such a thing as love…
and that you were made to live in someone else’s garden…
and you’ll know that there is more to life than yourself.

AND NOW…
You realize that no matter how tightly you hold,
if you’re meant to let go, you can
And then you will understand that love
gives you reasons to understand
even the most complicated situations
And you will grow older believing that just
because you have convictions
doesn’t mean you’re always right

You will remember lips because of the smiles
that made your day,
the words that touched your soul, not only
because of the sweet kisses

And as you graciously accept defeat and absorb
the meaning of lessons learned,
You feel that you are finally being the person
you never thought you’d be

So, armed with courage, strength and confidence,
you will face the world head on…
With or without an army behind you
Because you know your worth and that alone is an armor

With more heartbreaks you will cry
But after every heartache, you will rise

Life is a garden … it takes long to make it beautiful.
But it’s always worth the wait..

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MY DAY: Two Birds

Sunday, July 14th, I killed two birds with one stone, and what a delightful stone that was to toss.

Presidential Bird: I got to visit President William Henry Harrison’s tomb, again.

Love Birds: I was present, and sang with a choir, for the wedding of Alice Kay Hoover & David Lovelace.

DSC08069The fall of 2004, I decided to borrow something from Bishop Milton Wright who would allow his five children, Wilbur and Orville included,DSC08060 to take one day off from school, now and then, to explore something educational that interested them.  So, I piled the three sons, at that time, into the car on a school day (no tests), and we aimed for Southwestern Ohio to visit President Harrison’s tomb, and then on over to Cincinnati to see President William Howard Taft’s birthplace.  Of course, I am sure the boys would have protested had they known the Wright children got to select their day-off-from-school activity, but I was the one driving the car.

DSC08063President Harrison’s family tomb is beautiful, and amazingly impressive for one who served the office for thirty days, most of which were spent battling illnesses.  And President Harrison did not die from a cold, the result of giving the longest inaugural address in a freezing rain sansDSC08065 hat and coat as history likes to claim.  However, I love this monument to the ninth president, the son of a Declaration of Independence signer, the father of an impressive Ohio politician, and the grandfather of President Benjamin Harrison who was born in North Bend (but Indiana does a fair share of claiming Ben!). This monument represents the pride the people of North Bend had/have for President Harrison and his family.  That says a lot!

DSC07993At 10:30 AM, loved ones, friends, and a nice sized congregation were joined together for an impressive church service that also creativelyDSC08031 nestled the wedding vows of Alice Kay & David within.  It was a joyful, tender occasion for which I am grateful to have participated, and witnessed.  Communion was served curb style service (my personal favorite) as Alice Kay, David and their daughters came to each row to offer the feast.  It was very personal, and very touching.

DSC07963The line-up of presiding clergy was impressive!  These four individualsDSC08049  each shared a portion of the worship service and wedding ceremony, and I was so moved by their words, and creative spirits.  Alice Kay opened the service, greeting all of us gathered with loving, inviting words, and then retired to the balcony to prepare for the moment she approached the altar with David to be married.

DSC07911The church was built sometime before 1913, because one of the oldest members of the congregation indicated her parents were married there 100 years ago.  Actually, the building is on the site of the Harrison family plantation where President Benjamin Harrison was born. William Henry Harrison was born on Berkley Plantation on the James River in Virginian. I love these buildings that have survived not one, but two transitional fazes: United Brethren, Evangelical United Brethren (1946), and United Methodist (1968).  The church in which I grew up transitioned, and North Bend United Methodist reminded me of my beloved old building which burned down after I began college.

DSC08021DSC08020The bells of the church pealed loudly, announcing this new communion of hearts.  There was much rejoicing, happiness, singing, feasting (traditional Methodist potluck – the best!), and fellowship.  Another highlight for me was being seated at a table with four Methodist clergy!  I was in hog-heaven!  It occurred to me, while seated with these four scholarly individuals, two women and two men (with the pastor-bride, Alice Kay, a few DSC08034feet away), that I was indeed, my grandfather’s grandson.  Grandpa loved nothing more than to talk shop with clergy, especially after the 1968 merger in which he loved helping to work out the little bumps in the road.  Unlike Grandpa, I was not holding council, but merely enjoying the conversation of these dynamic leaders of my UMC.

This was an absolutely beautiful morning for me, and I am certain, even more so for Alice Kay & David, and their families.  I got to be with friends, celebrate a marriage, participate in a UMC worship, dine with the ordains, and taste some of Ohio’s rich presidential history!

Congratulations, Alice Kay & David, and much, much love to you, both!

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MY DAY: Out In The Country – a little bit of “Deliverance”

My Sunday adventures took me to the furthest Southwest reaches of Ohio.  I’ve been in this neck of the woods before, and love the rolling hills of The Ohio River Valley.

I chatted on my phone with Mother during the entire 52 (plus) mile drive.  Even with my phone’s GPS running, I still managed to miss where I-74W veered to the right.  At the next exit, I turned around, yet, could not locate the route I needed via GPS.  I turned off at another exit and found my self in the land that God forgot.

And then, my GPS stopped picking up any signals.

For some strange reason I’ve always been more comfortable walking along a Manhattan street late at night than I am driving through portions of a river or mountain country.  I don’t know if watching the movie, DELIVERANCE, placed something in my mind, or not, but I was beginning to become slightly panicked as I wandered deeper and deeper into unknown territory.  All I could do was go by the sun, and aim in a general Southwestern direction.

Finally, I pulled into the parking lot of some company to attempt a Google search.  Some men, looking rather rough, came out of the woods with some product of a hunt (I could not tell what it was).  I did not see any rifles, but they each carried long knives.  They loaded their dead beast in the back of their pickup truck, nicely jacked up far from the ground, and spotted me sitting in my car.  Rather than moving on about their business, they became more engrossed with watching me in my van.  I was still on the phone with Mother, so I knew that I could still reach assistance if I needed it. However, I did not wish to alarm Mother, and did not share this portion of the adventure’s story.  Had I been talking to my brother and mentioned this, the FBI and Ohio SWAT teams would have surrounded the parking lot within minutes, and men dressed in black would have been quickly lowered from a helicopter to rescue me.  You think I am kidding?  Just have Mother not pick up her phone, or respond to my brother within a reasonable amount of time!  

Naturally, we all tend to begin thinking the worst.  I knew that I could lock my door, and the passenger door if needed, but getting to the unlocked side door of the van would be a challenge.  The men had not laid aside their knives, and I hoped that if anyone else ran from the woods it would be Honey Boo Boo and June – at least they would have been a welcome site!  I fumbled entering information into Google. 

My brother lives in a rural area of Indiana, and we’ve often joked about some of the customs from that region that would make most shudder.  All I could think of was, “My story has Destin’s beat!  These men probably grabbed someone’s large dog and it will be served up at dinner!”

I decided to continue driving, and crossed over a little stretch of grass to a neighboring business to avoid driving by these men who were still keeping watch from their towering truck.

Back on the highway, I continued aiming toward what I hoped would be civilization, and North Bend, Ohio.  When I visited my grandfather’s mission program near Smith, Kentucky, nestled in the low mountains near the Tennessee and Virginia borders, I also got lost – and saw some sights that made me a little uneasy.

Before long, I saw another highway – OH-50, I believe and a bridge that I recognized.  Within minutes, I easily found my way to Symes Avenue (named for President William Henry Harrison’s father-in-law), and North Bend United Methodist Church.  The picturesque river town with its rich history welcomes me.  And, I was finally among my own people – Methodists!  The kindness of these strangers made up for the bit of panic experienced en route to the church.

And, there was no dog served (it’s a Methodist pot luck… they don’t get much better!).

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MY DAY: My morning rounds

The morning walk began about 8:15 AM, and I am going on about four hours of sleep. This normally is not a problem for me, but after the past few days I could have used a little bit more slumber.

By 9:15 AM I was on my way to Beavercreek to visit with the Pollock family who is hosting a yard sale for one of Joanie’s groups. I also finally gave Tyler his college graduation gift which I’ve had in my possession since the end of May.

After a fun, short visit with the Pollock family, I began my rounds for shopping needs over in the Fairfield Commons area. For anyone who knows me, shopping is one of my least favorite things. Fortunately, with my new iPhone and Siri, I can continue to work on emails, blogs, or texts while performing this necessary, but unenjoyable business. This for me has been a stress reliever, and a way to be fully productive with something – like shopping or snapping green beans – that makes me feel unproductive.

I’m now aiming myself in the direction of Kettering, knowing that I still have to iron clothes for tomorrow morning’s wedding, fix my new bicycle that has something prohibiting the tire from moving smoothly, prepare lunch, sit down to write and research, and then get ready for dinner with two director friends and and then on to another show of Joseph. I also need to map out my route to North Bend, Ohio for tomorrow’s trip.

I only pray that in 20, 30, or even 40 years, I shall still have the same abundance of my current daily energy so that I might still be productive, enjoying life to its fullest. I cannot imagine life otherwise.

From DLJH’s iPhone
“Make it a great day!”

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MY DAY: “It was red and yellow and green and brown and absolutely dazzling!”

It was red and yellow and green and brown…

After performing twenty-nine productions as “Joseph” which included three national tours, a shot at “Pharaoh” when the actor I directed in the role decided to have an emergency appendectomy just before the last two performances, directing thirteen productions, and seeing it countless times through the years, one might think seeing it again would be mighty tiring.

And scarlet and black and ochre and peach…

Not on your life.

Tonight, I was joined by my friend, Aaron Jacobs, at Epiphany Lutheran Church to see JOSEPH & THE AMAZING TECHNICOLOR DREAMCOAT.  Grant it, there are some productions that miss the mark by adding unnecessary gimmicks and extended scenes, but this production, directed by the incredibly gifted Megan Wean, maintained its integrity to the story, and the score.  This was, undoubtedly, the best production I’ve ever seen at Epiphany in 22 years of attending all but three summer productions.  It might be ranked as a church/community production, but its quality far exceeds even the very best community productions. 

And ruby and olive and violet and fawn…

Of the many productions for which I’ve served as an audience member, this was the strongest in staging and choreography. Megan’s vision was clearly aimed, and beautifully executed, and her creative thumbprint was definitely on this production, but certainly not in the way. The Miami Valley is filled with many community theatre directors, and I hope they, like myself, will take note of Megan’s approach to directing.  She is top notch!

And lilac and gold and chocolate and mauve…

The costuming captured me, immediately.  I am sure my favorite costumer, Heidi Anderson, would have tipped her hat with great enthusiasm.  Bruce Brown of Brown Creative never misses with any of his scenic designs, and sure enough, his dazzling, whimsical designs were brilliantly effective as they took us from Canaan to Egypt, back to Canaan, and finally, back to Egypt.  This production is designed with a circular thrust stage with the audience encompassing a little over 3/4 of the stage.  Very effective in bringing the performers much closer to the audience.  Ian Benjamin, one up and coming performer at Wright State University whose future we should keep an eye on, led a fine instrumental ensemble of electric keyboards, guitar, bass guitar and percussion that did not make me miss the full scored instrumentation that includes woodwinds and brass. Nicely done!

And cream and crimson and silver and rose…

I am not a fan of splitting the role of “Narrator” for JOSEPH as they seldom work as effectively as intended.  This casting decision came closer than most.  Fortunately, both actresses were equally talented, and despite the inability to hear them throughout most of the show due to the audio, they each delivered quality performances.  I can, however, commiserate with the director’s dilemma of having two fierce performers and only one strong female role.

And azure and lemon and russet and grey…

The two candescent deliveries were from two Centerville High School seniors, Charlie Arthur as “Potiphar,” and Brandon Critchfield as “Pharaoh.”  Each young man commanded the stage, and their performances culminated in thunderous applause from a very pleased audience.  Even if these two had performed their roles at half the energy they exhibited, they would have still chewed up the carpets.  Since their roles were also doubled as “Brothers” and “Chorus,” a common casting, Brandon and Charlie continued to deliver full, entertaining performances demonstrating a great deal of professionalism.  Remarkable!

And purple and white and pink and orange…

Having such a history with JOSEPH, I often am too critical of productions that stray from the heart of the story.  Obviously, Epiphany’s JOSEPH is not one of them.  The only criticism I had, aside from not being able to fully hear the “Narrators” unless they were aiming their sound toward me, was in the cast’s diction.  With a show that is entirely sung, the story must not be sacrificed with not-so-clear diction.  The consonants were often too soft, and the lack of diphthongs in key places altered the understanding unless you knew the lyrics.  Overall, the word-energy should be bumped up to near perfection. And there was no reason for two of Jacob’s sons not knowing the list of colors!  

And red and yellow and green and brown and blue!

I will be seeing this production again tomorrow, and honestly, I cannot wait.  I must admit that during “Any Dream Will Do” I wiped away some tears.  Had this production been of lesser quality, I probably would not have taken a brief stroll through a kaleidoscope of JOSEPH memories that all began 29 years ago.

“May I return to the beginning, the light is dimming, and the dream is, too.  The world and I, we are still waiting; still hesitating; any dream will do.”

This production definitely keeps the dream alive!  Thank you, Epiphany, for a technicolor production!

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MY DAY: A lyrical kind of day

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July 12th has mixed emotions for me, but I celebrate both.

images (2)Today, in 1895, the legendary lyricist Oscar Hammerstein II, who, along with his collaborator, Richard Rodgers, revolutionized the American musical as we know it today, was born.  Also on thisimages day, in 1988, the legendary director, playwright and producer, Joshua Logan, took his final bow.  Like his friend, Oscar Hammerstein II, Mr. Logan was to amass a much beloved treasury of national wonders in the musical theatre world, and together, they penned the libretto/script to the timeless classic, SOUTH PACIFIC.

I must say, that although I preach/insist, even growl about lyrics in private lessons, and when directing, I seldom note them in popular songs on the radio.  I am usually magnetized to the melody, first.  I am just now uncovering song lyrics from my high school years – I had no idea what they were.  When it comes to a live performance I am attending, I do focus on the lyrics – and am often, quite let down.  Diction is often a semi-failure in so many productions or concerts.

The lyrics of Oscar Hammerstein II, who with Mr. Logan, is my greatest inspiration, are incredible.  Some theatre folks will argue that they are sugary sweet, or out-dated.  Perhaps, but they are far beyond that in my opinion.  Rodgers & Hammerstein were often ahead of the curve for their time as they addressed issues of spousal abuse, bullying and stalking, improper behaviors for single women, and racism.  These three theatrical giants made certain we were ‘carefully taught.’

My favorite lyrics were by Mr. Hammerstein, set to composer Jerome Kern’s haunting, lush melody, “All The Things You Are.”

You are the promised kiss of springtime

That makes the lonely winter seem long

You are the breathless hush of evening

That trembles on the brink of a lovely song

You are the angel glow that lights a star

The dearest things I know are what you are

Some day my happy arms will hold you

And some day I’ll know that moment divine

When all the things you are, are mine

You are the angel glow that lights a star

The dearest things I know are what you are

Some day my happy arms will hold you

And some day I’ll know that moment divine

When all the things you are, are mine

This video is of the Hastings College under the direction of my other great mentor, Dr. Fritz Mountford, who was Fred Waring’s protege.

Happy birthday, Mr. Hammerstein!

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MY DAY: The end of a perfect day

There are just some days that seem absolutely perfect. This was one.

I accomplished so much around the house, finished up some business, assisted three former students with major projects for their marching band and show choirs, did some grocery shopping, bought a new bicycle, and spent some time with a dear friend who came over to assist me with my computer and keyboard.

One major accomplishment was cooking fresh green beans for the first time. I know that to many this might sound terribly simple, but for me this was big stuff. I quickly discovered that breaking the ends and breaking them in half was incredibly tall business. However, the end result was spectacular. I cooked the beans with small chunks of ham, mushrooms and spicy tomatoes. I had purchased some prepared chicken breasts at Kroger – lemon chicken with a very delicious crust of Parmesan cheese.

There is a part of me that wishes I could enjoy cooking more, however, I don’t. It’s that simple. Actually, I am a pretty good cook. I just don’t enjoy doing it. Fortunately, I also have enough comedic stories to go along with my cooking episodes to make it far more interesting. The other thing, with my teaching schedule throughout the year, it is very difficult to prepare something and have it ready when I am finished teaching. Therefore, I tend to fall back on the crockpot a good deal.

I am aiming for my Friday to be just as perfect, and as exciting as my Thursday.

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“Make it a great day!”

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MY DAY: Wedding Weekend

An exciting weekend of weddings is approaching, and I am thrilled to death!  Most all weddings are exciting affairs, but these two have blessings written all across them.  Two beautiful people, one a minister with grown children, and grandchildren, and the other a retired school teacher with grown children and grandchildren, will begin new chapters.

Alice & David

Alice & David

I first met Rev. Alice Kay Hoover around 2003 when her daughter, Amy, began taking voice and piano lessons with me.  I immediately fell in love with these two and have so enjoyed, and appreciated their friendship these past ten years.  Alice, now the presiding minister at North Bend United Methodist Church in Southwest Ohio, was reunited with a dear friend, David, last fall.  Alice is terribly creative, and talented, has a deep passion for music (all kinds, actually), and the arts.  This passion she lovingly shared with Amy who, as a skilled high school photographer, took photographs of my cat and dog that I cherish.

Don Fortner

Don Fortner

Nearly forty years ago, a beautiful family our next door neighbors in Elwood, Indiana.  Don & Susan Fortner, their young son, Jason, and their expected child, daughter, Laura.  I don’t think anyone could know a lovelier couple, truly devoted to God.  Don was the printing teacher at the high school, and one of the most delightful personalities and witty.  Susan, though tiny, and seemingly frail from her near life-long battle with lupus, was anything but frail – she was a dynamo of energy, possessing one of the greatest capacities to love and be of service to others, and a powerhouse of courage, strength, and determination.  Sadly, August 2012, the frail body could continue no longer.  Don was a deeply devoted husband and father, was loving care-giver to Susan.  Don was also my role model, and whether intended or not, a surrogate father for me.  For many years, until my driving days began, I rode to school with Don, and always had entertaining, or thought-provoking conversations. I was nicknamed, “Toot” since I played the saxophone. However, when I began playing the much larger baritone saxophone, I was aptly dubbed, “Super Toot.”  Don has been friends with a beautiful lady, Sharon, for 40 years; both were caregivers to their spouses.

I am completely happy for both Alice and Don. I normally do not get terribly excited over weddings, but these two, like the most recent one of a former student, will be special moments.  Although I’ll not be sharing in Don & Sharon’s private ceremony, I will certainly be celebrating with them in spirit, and sending much love.  Sunday morning, I will travel to North Bend, Ohio, the former site of President William Henry Harrison’s plantation, and location of his family tomb.  I will sing with a choir to celebrate this wedding, and am delighted to share this experience.

Don & Sharon, Alice & David, may I offer each of you my heartfelt congratulations, wishing all of you the most beautiful blessings.

Alice & David

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My DAY: 4:15 AM Thursday

It’s 4:15 AM, and the first day of four days off. I am wide awake, but have hopes to return to sleep shortly.

Our evening walk did not go so well, as the younger set of the trio seemed to have a surplus of energy, especially after seeing several dogs on our walk. Once Chief sees another dog, all the training, all his sensibility seems to leave his brain. He turns into this big glob of excitement who wants to play with the other dog.

However, they redeemed themselves tonight. Flyer woke me at 3:40 AM needing to go to the bathroom. Naturally, the other two, whether they needed to or not, began their potty dances. Due to the rain, I knew there would be some in the backyard and did not wish to deal with needing to wipe and dry twelve feet. After all it was 3:40 AM. Flyer has always been the gem when it comes to behaving in the front yard. I never have to worry about her. The other two, if given 1 ounce of freedom from the leash, will generally dart. However, tonight, with great trust and assurance, they lived up to the reputation of being a good Haas dog. One by one, each member of the trio descended the steps to the front yard, did their business, and returned in the house without incident. When we finish our walks, we’ve been stopping, first, in the middle of the yard, and now at the sidewalk, and unleashing, one by one, with instructions to go to the front door. They each have done a super job. Of course, the younger two have been great students of Flyer who, even in old age and blindness, has been a super role model. This was a great moment this morning, and one with a great deal of fanfare and celebration with a treat.

And now, I remain the sole member of this quartet who is wide awake. The other three have returned to slumber, and snoring.

Before going on our evening walk, I began watching the movie, Guess Who’s Coming To Dinner, on my laptop in my study. After our walk, I resumed watching the movie on my iPhone from bed. I don’t think that I, personally, have ever watched a more beautiful, poignant movie. The directing, writing and acting are, to me, superior in every way. A few minutes ago, I listened to dialogue I’ve heard many times before, but heard them completely in a different way. This time, I did not hear a discussion about a black man and a white girl falling in love during a time when it was terribly unacceptable, even dangerous; instead, I was delivered a lesson simply about two people falling in love. It doesn’t matter, one bit, what the rest of the world thinks. All that matters is that the two people love each other, and are prepared to face a full future together.

In the final stages of the movie, Dr. John Prentice, played by Sidney Poitier, says to his father, “You tell me what rights I’ve got or haven’t got, and what I owe to you for what you’ve done for me. Let me tell you something. I owe you nothing! If you carried that [mail] bag a million miles, you did what you’re supposed to do! Because you brought me into this world. And from that day you owed me everything you could ever do for me like I will owe my son if I ever have another. But you don’t own me! You can’t tell me when or where I’m out of line, or try to get me to live my life according to your rules. You don’t even know what I am, Dad, you don’t know who I am. You don’t know how I feel, what I think. And if I tried to explain it the rest of your life you will never understand. You are 30 years older than I am. You and your whole lousy generation believes the way it was for you is the way it’s got to be. And not until your whole generation has lain down and died will the dead weight of you be off our backs! I’m your son. I love you. I always have and I always will. But you think of yourself as a colored man. I think of myself as a man.”

Finally, one of the greatest motion picture actors of the 20th Century, Spencer Tracy, wrapped the film up with one of the most powerful speeches I’ve ever heard.

“Now Mr. Prentice, clearly a most reasonable man, says he has no wish to offend me but wants to know if I’m some kind of a *nut*. And Mrs. Prentice says that like her husband I’m a burned-out old shell of a man who cannot even remember what it’s like to love a woman the way her son loves my daughter. And strange as it seems, that’s the first statement made to me all day with which I am prepared to take issue… cause I think you’re wrong, you’re as wrong as you can be. I admit that I hadn’t considered it, hadn’t even thought about it, but I know exactly how he feels about her and there is nothing, absolutely nothing that you son feels for my daughter that I didn’t feel for Christina. Old- yes. Burned-out- certainly, but I can tell you the memories are still there- clear, intact, indestructible, and they’ll be there if I live to be 110. Where John made his mistake I think was in attaching so much importance to what her mother and I might think… because in the final analysis it doesn’t matter a damn what we think. The only thing that matters is what they feel, and how much they feel, for each other. And if it’s half of what we felt- that’s everything. As for you two and the problems you’re going to have, they seem almost unimaginable, but you’ll have no problem with me, and I think when Christina and I and your mother have some time to work on him you’ll have no problem with your father, John. But you do know, I’m sure you know, what you’re up against. There’ll be 100 million people right here in this country who will be shocked and offended and appalled and the two of you will just have to ride that out, maybe every day for the rest of your lives. You could try to ignore those people, or you could feel sorry for them and for their prejudice and their bigotry and their blind hatred and stupid fears, but where necessary you’ll just have to cling tight to each other and say “screw all those people”! Anybody could make a case, a hell of a good case, against your getting married. The arguments are so obvious that nobody has to make them. But you’re two wonderful people who happened to fall in love and happened to have a pigmentation problem, and I think that now, no matter what kind of a case some bastard could make against your getting married, there would be only one thing worse, and that would be if – knowing what you two are and knowing what you two have and knowing what you two feel- you didn’t get married. [To the families made, played by actress Isabel Sanford] Well, Tillie, when the hell are we gonna get some dinner?”

For some reason, the emotional impact of this movie has weighed heavily on me for several years. I keep figuring that there is a lesson, or something I am to learn from this movie. Perhaps, there is a creative project in store. Regardless, this, for me, is a tremendously great movie.

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“Make it a great day!”

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MY DAY: Fallingwater

In September 2013, as I celebrate my 49th year on earth, I will begin my year-long celebration of 49 activities. I have begun calling this festival of fun, Live Out Loud (LOL).

One of my student’s parents read through my list and was intrigued by my one item: a visit to Frank Lloyd Wright’s architectural wonder in Pennsylvania, Fallingwater.

FW_FALL_01The mother said that she and her husband were both captivated by what they read about this very unique house, and agreed that they wanted to take me there to help celebrate this particular item on my list of 49 activities. Her husband flies his own plane, and she said we would just fly out of Springboro’s Wright Brothers Airport on a Saturday morning and spend the day at Fallingwater.

imagesI am so pumped. I have wanted to visit this place since 1994, when my good friend, Jim Buxton, an architect in Columbus, Ohio, first introduced me to this magical setting of this Frank Lloyd Wright design.

Nancy and Elvin Winslow have already invited me out to Kansas City so they could take me to the Harry Truman presidential sites, and then I can scoot right on up into Nebraska to see Boys & Girls Town, and visit Father Flanagan’s tomb.

My LOL list is beginning to take shape.

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MY DAY: 5:00 AM

For some reason I was wide awake at 4:45 AM. Nothing unusual, as I fell asleep around midnight. 4 to 5 hours of sleep is generally my limit, but I would like to return to sleep shortly. It just feels like the right thing to do.

Chief is on the other side of the room snuggled next to Flyer on a pile of their doggy blankets. Navi is snuggled next to me, which seems to be her preferred location.

In four hours, I begin my last day of teaching for the week. I’m eager for Thursday to arrive so I can hopefully get some writing done, and maybe figure out how to get my keyboard and music program on my computer to work together.

From DLJH’s iPhone
“Make it a great day!”

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MY DAY: Interacting

I just left the public library without even speaking to another soul. No one greeted me, no one interacted with me while I was checking out my books at the automated check out, and no one told me goodbye as I was leaving.

It is strange to think how we are becoming a society that no longer interacts with one another. We see this at the bank with ATMs, at the grocery store with the automated cashiers, at the library with the automatic check out, at the automatic car wash, and several other places. We can do almost anything online without ever interacting with another human being.

I know several families who actually communicate with one another, in their own homes, via cell phones or computers. I also know too many who do not eat at least one meal together. That was never the case in my own home with my sons!

Naturally, I am addressing this observation via my iPhone to post on my online blog that will transmitted to my Facebook and Twitter accounts. I am attempting, in my own life, to avoid the temptations of convenience by interacting with others (but still do not expect me to give in to the telephone – I still loathe talking into phones!)0

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“Make it a great day!”

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MY DAY: Guess who’s coming to dinner?

The first day of teaching post vacation was great.

I am preparing for my longest day of teaching as I write this.

Our walk this morning, despite my opening act of lethargy, I became energetic and excited.   It seemed as though I had returned to my late 20’s.  Then, I walked into my kitchen and saw the container of Metamucil. Mind = 28, Body = 48.  In golf, my Mind would be winning.

My brain is wrapping itself around the 1967 movie, .

One of the most beautiful scenes in movie history is Spencer Tracy’s phenomenal monologue at the end.  Brilliant writing, directing and acting.  Here is Mr. Tracy’s final moments; he was to die a few weeks after filming.

In the late 1960’s, this theme was so poignant.  In 2013, the theme and message are still vital in so many ways.

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MY DAY: Back to teaching

It’s nearly midnight feeding this day into 9 July. It was a good day of teaching, and the students seemed as refreshed as myself.

Hey quiet evening with two PBS documentaries to entertain me. I tried fiddling with my keyboard and laptop again, and still no results. Maybe tomorrow.

Tomorrow is my longest day of teaching, but it is also my week’s hump day.

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MY DAY: Last day of vacation

Today is the last day of my 11 day vacation. I really can’t complain since I only teach three long days a week followed by four days off. However, I sorely needed these 11 days to simply relax, get some writing done, visit with some wonderful people, and kind of regroup. I don’t necessarily feel as refreshed and invigorated as I would had I been at a beach for a week, but I do feel content, relaxed, more confident, and ready to embark on some new life adventures.

The funeral for which I played Saturday morning was so touching, and beautiful. What a brilliant celebration and send off for an adorable 93-year-old woman. Her great-grandson played one of the hymns, and did an outstanding job. I am so proud of him to excel under such pressure.

The day was filled with rain. From the early morning hours until midafternoon, it was a constant downpour. The afternoon and very early evening was without rain, but gray and dull. However, around 8:30 PM the sun made an appearance at the 11th hour.

I took an early afternoon nap and woke about 3 PM. I had plans to go see a movie but all plans were laid aside when I discovered Flyer seemed to be in a state of distress. The poor old girl could not lift her head and could barely keep her eyes open. She had some very peculiar twitching, and from research and contact with a vet, it seemed that the end was actually here. I kept petting her, and telling her that she was loved. She refused all food, water, treats, and anything else with which I tried to coax her. Even Navi and Chief we’re sensitive to her condition, and hovered nearby. Chief lay down next to Flyer, while Navi laid on the bed looking over her.

After several hours, the wood floor was becoming a bit painful and I moved a few feet away to sit up against a chair in my bedroom. That was when Chief took Flyer one of my T-shirts to lay by her head, and she snuggled her face in it. About 20 minutes later, Flyer stretched, began wagging her tail and appeared more alert in the face. I called her name, and she hopped right up without any hesitation, hurried over to me and laid down in my lap. Although I was excited to see this resurrection moment, I also wondered if this was another sign that the end was near. As she laid there in my lap, she was wagging her tail the entire time and responding to all my words. Eventually, she hopped up and headed right down the stairs, moving down them with very little effort. She got to the closet door and began nudging it, which has always been her sign that she’s ready to go for her walk. When we returned from the walk, she ate a full meal, and wanted to come back upstairs with the kids and me. This morning dear old Flyer seemed even more youthful on our morning walk. Generally, halfway through the walk she begins to lag a little bit. But this morning, she was right up there with the kids and not missing a moment of her sniff-fest.

By 8 PM last night, I was exhausted. My eyes struggled to stay awake and I wanted to go to sleep. However, I knew that if I went to bed too early I would be wide-awake by 2 AM or 3 AM. I kept myself busy by watching two movies on television, followed by writing a quite lengthy email to a dear friend.

The day is already gray, and the threat of rain is eminent. I really need to mow the backyard, especially, but I’m afraid the ground is still too soggy. I would like to do something incredibly fun and different to celebrate this last day of my vacation, but have no idea what to do.

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MY DAY: Celebrating a life

In a few minutes I shall begin getting ready to head to Centerville to play music for a visitation and funeral for a grandmother of a friend, and a great-grandmother for two of my students.

Music, without any doubt, is a powerful, mighty tool.  Someone once said that when we make music we are exceptionally close to God, and reign with the angels.

I will play for an hour during the visitation.  My folder is full of some of the best old hymns ever written, as well as standard Bill & Gloria Gaither tunes.  Nothing brings out memories of my childhood, and especially, my grandparents, than hymns.  “Holy, Holy, Holy” was my grandfather’s favorite hymn, and Grandma Donna claimed hers to be, “I Love To Tell The Story.” These hymns generally moisten the eyes a bit.

Since this is for my two students’ great-grandmother, I am taking along, and will play one hymn from my own great-grandmother’s hymnal in honor of my students.  I never met the very musically talented Thelma Daugherty Barmes, as she died nearly seven years before I was born.  When I play hymns for any kind of service, I always feel as though I am continuing my family’s legacy with generations of church work, and music.

“I love to tell the story, twill be my theme in glory; to tell the old, old story of Jesus and his love.”

Now, some of the current versions change the text to: “I’ll sing one day in glory” replacing “twill be my theme in glory.”

Rubbish!

I refuse to change the words, and sing out the lyrics I’ve known all my life.  On some things, I will not be budged, and that part of my nature really rises when it comes to old texts in hymns.

Right now, it is raining, seeming to fulfill the old adage, “the angels are weeping.”  They may be weeping, but I am sure they are also singing and dancing to celebrate the little lady joining them today.

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MY DAY: A return to Smith-Walbridge Drum-Major Camp

July 8, 1979.  Smith-Walbridge Drum-Major Camp; Syracuse, Indiana.

imagesMy grandparents and mother drove me to Smith-Walbridge’s Drum-Major Camp, arriving on a cloudy Sunday afternoon.  The camp was located on a hill on the Northeast side of Syracuse, Indiana, at the edge of Boner Lake, with Syracuse Lake and Lake Wawasee within shouting distance.  It was a lovely location, and seemingly isolated despite the many boats that dotted the lakes throughout the day and early evenings, and the illuminated homes each night.

After checking in, and depositing my items in cabin 4-B, I bid good bye to my family and explored the camp.  I began chatting with a fellow drum-major from somewhere in Ohio.  Ironically, in 1990, our paths would cross again when I became roommates with her boyfriend (later her fiancee and husband) upon my move to Dayton, Ohio.

100_5772That evening, several hundred drum-majors and field commanders were spirited over to the dining hall for our first meal.  I can still remember standing by this tree, entertaining fellow drum-majors with jokes as we waited in the seemingly long line.  A camper named Rick had joined the circle, and discovered it was great fun to step on my punchlines.  Even at 15, I knew how to tell a joke, and this interruption was insulting, to say the least.

Inside the dining hall, Rick elected to sit by me while eating supper.  I clearly warned him it would behoove him to not interrupt another joke I told.  And, in the next eleven years of our friendship, he never did.

images (2)After supper we were herded into the cavernous, barn-like meeting hall that had a high stage.  There we were introduced to the directors and staff – legendary names of the marching band world: Merl Smith, Dr. Charles Hensey, Tom Smith, Jim Leslie, and others.  We quickly learned that we were to learn a new system of thinking, a new way of approaching leadership – much of which has been with me all these years as I train prospective drum-majors.  We were introduced to The Drum-Major Manual & Big Ten Football Band Charts. [I was starting my drum-major career during the transition of Big Ten style marching into corps style’s curve-linear marching.]  This manual was our Bible for the next six days.

It was in this hall that I sang in my first SATB chorus.  They taught us old camp standards, “Good Night, Ladies,” “Back Home, Again, In Indiana” and my personal favorite, “Tell Me Why.”

The men, in four-part harmony, sang:

Tell me why the stars do shine / Tell me why the ivy twines / Tell me why the sky’s so blue / And then I’ll tell you just why I love you.

And, then, the women echoed with:

Because God made the stars to shine / Because God made the ivy twine / Because God made the sky’s so blue / Because God made you, that’s why I love you.

We concluded with learning “America, the Beautiful” and “The Battle Hymn of the Republic.”  I can still remember the hair standing on my arms and neck.

The hill overlooking the lake.

The hill overlooking the lake.

Each night, after supper, we met in the hall for instructions, and the singing of these songs before our allotted free-time, and lights out.  Rick and I would grab our sundaes and dash to the top of the hill behind the cabins to look out over the lake, and discuss life and its many adventures.

The days began early and were long, and physically taxing as we marched, saluted, conducted, and learned drills in the hot sun, or pouring rain. Before dinner, many of us raced to shower, not caring that the hot water would soon be diminished.  The cold water was refreshing.

As the week drew to a close, the several hundred strangers had become one huge family – a family of teen leaders who would soon return to their respective marching bands to model what they had learned.  Friday night, our last evening gathering in the hall, was the initial round of farewells, starting with the talent show.  One counselor sang, “Time In A Bottle,” something I would hear each camp week for the following three years.  My friend Rick, from Illinois, dedicated, “He Ain’t Heavy, He’s My Brother” to me.  When he returned to where we were seated, he gave me his favorite ball cap.

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We ended the evening with our traditional mass chorus.  Then, after free-time and lights out, the male drum-majors gathered by the pavilion.  The counselors led us to one of the women’s cabins where all the female drum-majors were gathered.  In complete darkness, we sang our camp songs.  That night, as the women responded with the phrase, “Tell me why the stars do shine…” a shooting star was spotted through many tear-filled eyes.

My drum-major whistle and Rick's ball cap

My drum-major whistle and Rick’s ball cap

Five years ago, today, my son, Jose, and I returned to Smith-Walbridge’s old site. The clinics were moved to The University of Illinois several years ago, and the property has been acquired by a mega-church.  It was three days short of the first time I’d set foot on the ground twenty-nine years earlier – when I was about my son’s age.  As I stood on the hill overlooking the former camp that had meant so much to me (and, still does), I was flooded with memories… many wonderful memories of moments that shaped my life as a drum-major, a leader, a conductor, and as a person.

And, yes, the soundtrack of my mind was echoing, “Because God made the stars to shine…”

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EVENT: Sleep Among the Exhibits at Carillon Park!

Oh, boy! This is right down my alley!

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Flight by Night Overnight Program at Carillon Park
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Flight by Night Overnight Program
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$35 per Dayton History Member
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about the Wright brothers
Ever wonder what happens in the Museum at night? The learning and fun continue with our Flight by Night Overnight Program in the Wright Brothers Aviation Center for children ages eight to twelve. Discover flight in an entertaining, educational and interactive way through a discovery hunt, crafts, games, films and much more. Bring your sleeping bag and pillow so you can sleep among the exhibits.

The $35 Dayton History member or $40 non-member fee includes snacks, a light breakfast and a free admission ticket to Carillon Park.

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