I don’t believe I’ve ever experienced so much change within a short period of time.  And, despite some departures that I sorely miss, the transitions have been tenderly welcomed, and smooth.

The dynamics of the family structure changed in late May.  Despite the sorrows it brought, I’ve come to realize just how much healthier the house has become, and just much more healthy I’ve become.  The stress had been taking a slight toll on me, and in many ways, this change was greatly liberating.

Since last fall, Flyer’s health had been a roller coaster.  The end of July, it became evident that there would be no more coaster rides to the top for my girl.  And, sadly, July 29th, she slipped away as Chief and I held her, and reassured her she will always be loved.  Though it is sad to not have Flyer with us, she is no longer suffering.  And, I am regaining my footing as the stress of nursing her is over.

I completely rearranged the house, bought new furniture, and have enjoyed the new spaces, and especially, my new, larger study.  New curtains hang in several rooms, and this new arrangement of The Hassienda is quite agreeable, and comfortable.

I spent precious little time in the yard with plants and flowers.  There were no major exterior projects as in past years, and I honestly did not miss a moment.  I did not lose sleep if a weed began growing, and even though I am looking out across the backyard that did not receive much attention, I am satisfied that I enjoyed my time this summer.

Some things just do not matter any more.  And that’s OK!

I spent more time with dear friends, added a friend to my very small, close circle of friends, bid farewell to a beloved friend who moved to Kansas, and attended some social events – two of which were weddings!  Many meetings occurred at my favorite Kettering shop, Awesome Yogurt.  I allowed my self more “me”-time than I have in thirteen years.  Thanks to a special friend, I was reintroduced to Me.

I’ve branched out in some areas, as well.  Despite hating to step foot in my kitchen for actual cooking, I’ve been nudged in that direction, with more confidence, and assurance that cooking, like music, requires practice.  I am such a process-oriented guy, yet, the process of cooking always feels time consuming when I could be doing other things.  Time will tell.

I also attended more music and theatre events than I have in many years.  It is nice to be back in that circle, again.

I am almost finished with the planning of my “Live Out Loud” list – the 49 new things I will do over the course of the coming year, commencing on my 49th birthday in September.  I am looking forward to these adventures.  I am doing these things for me, and with the hope of encouraging others to stretch their comfort levels, and do things they’ve always wanted to do.

My list of theatre and music events to attend over the next nine months is staggering!  I’ve always slightly envied my friend, Jeff Carter, for all the music/theatre he gets to enjoy.  By golly, this year, I just might beat Jeff’s record of most events attended.  Sadly, I cannot see everything I wish to see as there are 3-5 events piled on the same day.

The changes have been healthy.  I am walking 4-6 miles per day, and my sugar counts have been super.  The lack of stress, more exercise and healthier eating habits are paying off, allowing me to enjoy life so much more than I have in the past.  And just knowing there are some folks out there who care about me, personally, makes all the difference.

Today, my summer has officially ended, but the effects of this wonderful season have been, and will prove to be, fantastic!

On to this new year!