Dust ~ How I loathe thee!

Dust 1. earth or other matter in fine, dry particles. 2. a cloud of finely powdered earth or other matter in the air. 3. any finely powdered substance, as sawdust. 4. A pain in Darin’s ass!

What a hideous thing!  Dust!

This afternoon, I thoroughly cleaned, reorganized, and refreshed the studio.  It is the busiest, most constantly used space in the entire house.  I use it, 58 students use it each week, Quintin will use the computer or play the piano, and three dogs, always needing to be near Dad, frequent the various areas of the rug. There is constant activity in this room.  And, it is also direct passage to the deck, my second study for writing during the warmer days.

After I finished teaching this evening, I began the hideous ritual of actually dusting. I know mothers of students cringe when they enter the living room which is more of a waiting room during lessons.  I simply do not dust as often as I should.

Now, when I lived in my townhouse in Centerville, my study was upstairs.  On different days, each week, I would leave a dust rag and can of Pledge on an end table. Unsuspecting, considerate moms would assume I ran out of time while dusting, and finish the task for me while their child was in the lesson.  I would descend from the second floor to the heavenly smell of citrus.  Some moms would say, “I went ahead and finished your dusting,” while others would not utter a word, remaining a silent saint!

At The Haasienda, I do not pull that oft used trick.  I simply do not make dusting a priority. Instead, it tends to become a seasonal cleaning.

Now, the house seems fresh, and clean. The table runners have been washed, and returned to tables and bookcases.

It is 12:50am, and I am winding down from the long, but enjoyable day!

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One Liner-Groaners…

I changed my iPod’s name to Titanic. It’s syncing now.

When chemists die, they barium.

Jokes about German sausage are the wurst!

I know a guy who’s addicted to brake fluid. He says he can stop any time.

How does Moses make his tea? Hebrews it!

I stayed up all night to see where the sun went. Then it dawned on me.

This girl said she recognized me from the vegetarian club, but I’d never met herbivore.

I’m reading a book about anti-gravity. I just can’t put it down.

I did a theatrical performance about puns. It was a play on words.

They told me I had type-A blood, but it was a Type-O.

PMS jokes aren’t funny; period!

Why were the Indians here first? They had reservations.

We’re going on a class trip to the Coca-Cola factory. I hope there’s no pop quiz.

I didn’t like my beard at first. Then it grew on me.

Did you hear about the cross-eyed teacher who lost her job because she couldn’t control her pupils?

When you get a bladder infection urine trouble!

Broken pencils are pointless.

I tried to catch some fog, but I mist.

What do you call a dinosaur with an extensive vocabulary? A thesaurus.

England has no kidney bank, but it does have a Liverpool!

I used to be a banker, but then I lost interest.

I dropped out of communism class because of lousy Marx.

All the toilets in New York’s police stations have been stolen. The police have nothing to go on.

I got a job at a bakery because I kneaded dough!

Haunted French pancakes give me the crêpes.

Velcro — what a rip off!

A cartoonist was found dead in his home. Details are sketchy.

Venison for dinner again? Oh deer!

The earthquake in Washington obviously was the government’s fault.

Be kind to your dentist. She has fillings, too!

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The Perfect Catch…

Mother & Grandpa

Mother & Grandpa

On a Thursday morning at 10:55am, June 3rd, 2004, my grandfather, Leroy “Red” Barmes, slipped away from this life.

Throughout most of my life, he was more than just ‘grandpa;’ he was also a second dad. He was the one male figure I could count on in life, and I know I’ve enjoyed being a father and uncle due to the joy I know he took from his family.

By the time I was able to walk and talk as a toddler, Papaw Leroy dubbed me with the nickname, “Honkin’” or simply, “Honk.”  He was the only one who ever called me this and most of my cards or letters for nearly forty years have been addressed to “Honkin’.

One of my earliest memories of my grandfather is not one most grandchildren would have.

The slide...

The slide…

We were having a church picnic out at Calloway Park and I, at age three, climbed to the top of a slide that was twenty feet tall.  For whatever reason, after reaching the top, I looked over the side and lost my balance.  To this day, I can still clearly remember falling head first and seeing the ground begin to blur into a mass of solid green.  The image of my forty-six year old grandfather running towards me with outstretched arms is forever etched in my mind.  Grandpa caught me that afternoon.

For me, and the former baseball and football star, it was a perfect catch!

[From the funeral notes I delivered June 7, 2004.]

Now, it’s my turn to stretch out my arms, prepared to catch my own sons, my nephews, and my niece – and hopefully one day, my own “Honkin’.”

So, today, with heartfelt gratitude and deep affection, and a treasury of many wonderful memories, our family concludes a chapter in a tremendous book that is far from being finished.  Rather than bidding Grandpa farewell, I am compelled to return to our Barmes roots in Germany and simply say, “Auf wiedersehn” – “until we meet again.”

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A fun, happy week…

These past two weeks have been fun, hectic, and tiring.  Friday was so tightly packed, but one of the best nights – just like Wednesday when we saw WICKED.  It was just a happy week.

Zach Pollock & Suzanne Grote

Zach Pollock & Suzanne Grote

After the Wilbur Wright ceremony at Woodland Cemetery, Quintin and I grabbed two Kettering graduation parties, and finished the evening at Brian & Joanie Pollock’s home in Beavercreek for Zach’s graduation party.  It was so nice to spend some time with Joanie’s mom, Sue Eggleston, as well as the rest of the family. We even got to watch some of Zach’s early videos, dancing at age 3!  So cute!  The last time I asked Brian for the time it was 9:00pm; however, I was surprised when I learned it was after 11:30pm when we left – it was just a fun, comfortable evening, and I hope the Pollocks got some rest before graduation this morning at Nutter Center.

This morning I woke at 6:30am, fed the pets, ate some eggs and toast, returned to my room to watch THE TODAY SHOW’s Saturday edition, and ended up falling back to sleep until Noon.

Sue Eggleston with her youngest & eldest grandsons

Sue Eggleston with her youngest & eldest grandsons

We showered, dressed and hit the road to attend seven graduation parties between Kettering, Centerville,  Springboro, Bellbrook and Miamisburg .  I gave Quintin the option of going with me today, and I am proud of him for saying he wanted to go. And it was neat as six of the parties were students who have been with me for 12-13 years!  The other party was for a sibling of a family whose older three children were with me a total of 19 years!  I have watched this boy grow up from birth – in fact, his mother’s water broke just after she left a lesson with the children!

At 3:15pm, while near the Dayton Mall, we took a break between parties, and went to see THE LUCKY ONE.  Quintin had been wanting to see this movie, and after this week, he had earned it.  We then continued on to two remaining parties of the seven combined.

After grabbing some groceries, we came home to three very excited dogs.  I fixed pork chops, a brown rice concoction with veggies and Alfredo sauce. We ate on the deck, enjoying time with the dogs, and watching the sun set, sending lovely rays across Bob & Chris’ yard.

Now we are getting ready to watch a movie, and I plan on turning in by midnight.  We will see how that goes!

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Celebrating the life of Wilbur Wright

The centennial of Wilbur Wright’s death was this week.  Wilbur, age 45, died from typhoid fever on May 30, 1912.  His funeral was held at Woodland Cemetery, June 1, 1912.

Yesterday, members of the Wright family, astronaut Neil Armstrong, Dayton’s mayor, Kettering City Councilman Ashley Webb, Ohio State Representative Jim Butler, several historians – Betty Darst, Rick Young & Dawne Dewey, and several hundred interested folks gathered around the Wright family graves to celebrate the life of this great visionary.

The Wright brothers were two of seven children born to Milton Wright (1828–1917) and Susan Catherine Koerner (1831–1889). Wilbur Wright was born near Millville, Indiana in 1867; Orville in Dayton, Ohio in 1871. The brothers never married. The other Wright siblings were named Reuchlin (1861–1920), Lorin (1862–1939), Katharine (1874–1929), and twins Otis and Ida (born 1870, died in infancy).

The Wright family members present:

  • Amanda Wright Lane
    • her great grandfather was Lorin Wright, an elder brother of Wilbur
  • Stephen Wright
    • his great grandfather was Lorin Wright, an elder brother of Wilbur
  • Marianne Miller Hudec
    • her mother was the daughter of Lorin Wright, an elder brother of Wilbur
  • Margaret Steeper Brown
    • her mother was Bertha Ellwyn Wright, daughter of Reuchlin Wright, the eldest brother of Wilbur 
    • Margaret’s husband & daughter were also present at the service

Bishop Milton Wright wrote of his son Wilbur:

“In memory and intellect, there was none like him. He systemized every thing. His wit was quick and keen. He could say or write anything he wanted to. He was not very talkative. His temper could hardly be stirred. He wrote much. He could deliver a fine speech, but was modest.”

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Neil Armstrong speaks at Wilbur Wright memorial service…

As a young boy, I had a portrait of Neil Armstrong hanging above my bed before he made his famous walk on the moon.  I was so excited to learn he would be a guest speaker today at the memorial service commemorating Wilbur Wright’s death 100 years ago (May 30, 1912; funeral/burial took place 100 years ago today).

My student, Katie, after shaking hands with Neil Armstrong

My student, Katie, after shaking hands with Neil Armstrong

This was exciting stuff!

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Wide awake…

The day began at 8:15am with a private lesson before the student headed next door to the high school for a final exam.  By 10:00am I was on my way to the middle school for the last time this Spring, and remained until 1:00pm.  Back at home I completed a few minor tasks, and treated myself to a brief nap before teaching some make-up lessons. The rest of the evening was event-filled, and I finally returned home by midnight.

And at 2:00am, I am still wide awake.

A fairly steady rain has fallen for several hours.  The air has cooled, offering a good deal of relief after several days of 90-degree temperatures.  I am happy for the rain as it will give many gulps of water to all my flowers and plants; however, the large, old blanket will fill my study so the three dogs can wipe their paws.  It is rather cute to watch: Flyer, very well trained, wipes her paws and settles down until called; Navi and Chief parade around the room before following Flyer’s lead in laying down.

Tomorrow’s full, fun-filled agenda begins at 8:30am with some minor end-of-the-school-year celebrations.  At 1:00pm we will take in the new Wilbur Wright exhibit at Carillon Park before heading over to Woodland Cemetery to participate in the Wilbur Wright memorial services.  The Woodland Cemetery Facebook page lists the event as:

Friday, June 1st at 3:00pm – Historic Woodland Cemetery & Arboretum will hold a Memorial Service in honor of the 100th anniversary (to the minute) of Wilbur Wright’s burial. Starting at 3pm at the Wright Family Monument, the event will include a flyover and music by the US Air Force Band of Flight. Special presenters will include Neil Armstrong, Mayor Gary Leitzell, Historian Rick Young and relatives of the Wright family. At 3:30pm, an honorary Moment of Silence will be held. Please join us for this momentous event.

I know this probably sounds quite macabre to some, but as a devotee of Wright family history, this is truly a major moment for me.  I am taking Quintin with me so he can see Neil Armstrong, the first man to walk on the moon.

Friday evening holds several graduation parties of students.

I am hoping sleep will arrive soon so I can maintain full energy throughout the 15-or-so hours I will be fully occupied.

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Mabel Beck: Secretary to the Wright Brothers

I just discovered this link about the Wright Brothers’ longtime secretary, Mabel Beck. There was always speculation that Orville and Mabel were more than just boss and secretary. In twelve years of research, I’ve never uncovered any supporting evidence.

Mabel Beck’s Story Part of Wright Brothers’ Story  is a series of articles by Roz Young that dealt with Mabel Beck’s life with the Wright Brothers.  The articles appeared in the Dayton Daily News from November 20, 1993 to March 12, 1994.

Roz Young and Melba Hunt always insisted they had seen love letters that were discovered in Mabel’s home on Acacia Drive in Oakwood, Ohio. The home’s design, construction, and maintenance was funded  by Orville Wright.

Melba and Roz told explained to me that Mabel remained in the back of First Baptist Church, pacing, and wringing her hands during Orville’s 1948 funeral.

In the article, which I’ve not had the time to thoroughly read, I did note two items that were incorrect:

  1. Orville Wright did not died from a stroke
    1. Orville died suffered a heart attack in January 1948 
    2. A few days after being hospitalized he died from a second heart attack
  2. Mabel did not purchase her own grave plots in Woodland Cemetery
    1. when Susan KoerneW Wright, mother of the Wrights, died in 1889, Bishop Milton Wright purchased eight plots on the South side of Woodland Cemetery, near the Col. Deeds mausoleum on July 5th
    2. Wilbur was not pleased with the site, and encouraged his father to purchase plots where the Wright family is buried
    3. While doing research in  2001, I worked with several staff members of Woodland Cemetery who showed me where Mabel’s burial site was located
    4. A card was also produced which specified Mabel’s plots were originally purchased by Milton Wright, July 5, 1889
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June 1-7: e-vents in Your Downtown

e-vents in Your Downtown

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Brady & Amy Kress before WICKED

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The Webb Children before WICKED

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The WICKED Vendors

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Spring Forest Ball at the Old Court House!

Spring Forest Ball
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Family Homes & Sites In & Around Elwood…

The William & Mary Ball Family Home in Boone Township, Madison County. Settled in 1821 by my 5th great-grandparents. Their son, William Ball, lived on the farm, and is buried in Forestville Cemetery, one mile directly south of the property.  There has been a fire, and the home is no longer habitable.

  1. Doctor Bunnell Ball & Rachel Denman
  2. William Ball & Mary Jane McCray
  3. Prudence Ball Greenlee
  4. Anna Greenlee Jones
  5. Mary Belle Jones Clary
  6. Donna Clary Barmes
  7. Diana Barmes Haas
  8. Darin Jolliffe-Haas

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Carillon Park & Dayton History – 2012 Heritage Festival

Spent a fun, Memorial Day Sunday evening with Quintin, Aaron Jacobs, The Webbs: Ashley, Emily, Savannah, Harrison & Ethan, and The Kress Family: Brady, Amy, Kate & Sarah, and several thousand others!

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My Hometown, Elwood, Indiana…

Mother moved from the city that had been the childhood home to three generations, and a county that had welcomed our ancestors 201 years ago as the earliest pioneers.

Elwood will always be home, yet, with Mother living on the Northwest side of the state, passing through Elwood, and Ball State University’s campus, will be a great deal of time, and miles, out of the way.

Here are some scenes from my last day in my hometown…

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Mother is now a Citizen of Fowler, Indiana…

Sunday morning, my brother, Destin, arrived with several students, two trailers, and two pick-up trucks.  A family friend joined us, and within two hours, Mother, Destin and the students were heading Northwest to Fowler, Indiana.  They were met by more than a dozen helpers, and within 30 minutes, per Destin’s report, Mother’s belongings were inside her new home.

Here are some photos of moving day:

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Be Smart…

Last week, my cousin encouraged members of another site to please check facts before posting erroneous information.  Naturally, it fell on deaf ears because the respondents were too enthusiastic in adding to flaming the fires of misinformation.

Friday afternoon, a Facebook friend posted was furious upon reading President Obama was not scheduled for any Memorial Day services.  She did not state where she read the information, nor did she provide the link with the information.  Her post fueled a barrage of others chiming in, pushing the authenticity of the comment further from any supportive facts.

I just finished listening to the president’s speech from earlier today, and it does seem as though the president did have an event on this Memorial Day.  His schedule, today:

9:15 am – Hosts a breakfast in honor of Gold Star Families who have lost a family member in battle

11:00 am – Lays a wreath at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier

11:15 am – Delivers remarks

1:50 am – Delivers remarks at the Vietnam Memorial

When I typed in to Google, “President Obama’s 2012 Memorial Day Schedule” there was a nice, healthy list.

We are in the midst of another national election, and there will be constant finger pointing published in the media.  As responsible citizens, and posters, I encourage all of us to double check the facts on items we read.  With the internet it is so easy to research, but it is also very easy to get fooled.

Be smart.  Be responsible.  Be good citizens.  Be good friends.

The following are remarks President Obama delivered May 28, 2012, at Memorial Day ceremonies at the Vietnam War Memorial in Washington, D.C.:

Good afternoon, everybody.  Chuck, thank you for your words and your friendship and your life of service.  Veterans of the Vietnam War, families, friends, distinguished guests.  I know it is hot.  (Laughter.)  But you are here — to honor your loved ones.  And Michelle and I could not be more honored to be here with you.

It speaks to the complexity of America’s time in Vietnam that, even now, historians cannot agree on precisely when the war began.  American advisors had served there, and died there, as early as the mid-’50s.  Major combat operations would not begin until the mid-’60s.  But if any year in between illustrated the changing nature of our involvement, it was 1962.

It was January, in Saigon.  Our Army pilots strapped on their helmets and boarded their helicopters.  They lifted off, raced over treetops carrying South Vietnamese troops.  It was a single raid against an enemy stronghold just a few miles into the jungle — but it was one of America’s first major operations in that faraway land.

Fifty years later, we come to this wall — to this sacred place — to remember.  We can step towards its granite wall and reach out, touch a name.  Today is Memorial Day, when we recall all those who gave everything in the darkness of war so we could stand here in the glory of spring.  And today begins the 50th commemoration of our war in Vietnam.  We honor each of those names etched in stone — 58,282 American patriots.  We salute all who served with them.  And we stand with the families who love them still.

For years you’ve come here, to be with them once more.  And in the simple things you’ve left behind — your offerings, your mementos, your gifts — we get a glimpse of the lives they led.  The blanket that covered him as a baby.  The baseball bat he swung as a boy.  A wedding ring.  The photo of the grandchild he never met.  The boots he wore, still caked in mud.  The medals she earned, still shining.  And, of course, some of the things left here have special meaning, known only to the veterans — a can of beer; a packet of M&Ms; a container of Spam; an old field ration — still good, still awful.  (Laughter.)

It’s here we feel the depth of your sacrifice.  And here we see a piece of our larger American story.  Our Founders — in their genius — gave us a task.  They set out to make a more perfect union.  And so it falls to every generation to carry on that work.  To keep moving forward.  To overcome a sometimes painful past.  To keep striving for our ideals.

And one of the most painful chapters in our history was Vietnam — most particularly, how we treated our troops who served there.  You were often blamed for a war you didn’t start, when you should have been commended for serving your country with valor.  (Applause.)  You were sometimes blamed for misdeeds of a few, when the honorable service of the many should have been praised.  You came home and sometimes were denigrated, when you should have been celebrated.  It was a national shame, a disgrace that should have never happened.  And that’s why here today we resolve that it will not happen again.  (Applause.)

And so a central part of this 50th anniversary will be to tell your story as it should have been told all along.  It’s another chance to set the record straight.  That’s one more way we keep perfecting our Union — setting the record straight.  And it starts today.  Because history will honor your service, and your names will join a story of service that stretches back two centuries.

Let us tell the story of a generation of service members — every color, every creed, rich, poor, officer and enlisted — who served with just as much patriotism and honor as any before you. Let’s never forget that most of those who served in Vietnam did so by choice.  So many of you volunteered.  Your country was at war, and you said, “send me.”  That includes our women in Vietnam — every one of you a volunteer.  (Applause.)  Those who were drafted, they, too, went and carried their burden — you served; you did your duty.

You persevered though some of the most brutal conditions ever faced by Americans in war.  The suffocating heat.  The drenching monsoon rains.  An enemy that could come out of nowhere and vanish just as quickly.  Some of the most intense urban combat in history, and battles for a single hill that could rage for weeks.  Let it be said — in those hellholes like Briarpatch, and the Zoo and the Hanoi Hilton — our Vietnam POWs didn’t simply endure; you wrote one of the most extraordinary stories of bravery and integrity in the annals of military history.

Read more: http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2012/05/28/transcript-president-obama-memorial-day-remarks-at-vietnam-war-memorial/#ixzz1wDKYJ7gw

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News from Congressman Mike Turner

News from Congressman Mike Turner U.S. Congressman Michael Turner

Congressman Michael Turner: Proudly Representing Ohio's 3rd District
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Honoring those Who Gave the Ultimate Sacrifice this Memorial Day

Each year on Memorial Day, we honor the men and women of our military who fought and paid the ultimate price for our Nation’s defense. As Americans, we often take our freedom for granted, but we should never forget those whose sacrifice made our freedom possible. As we pay tribute to those who served, I want to reaffirm my commitment to upholding the promises our Nation has made to its active duty service personnel, military veterans, and their families.

This month, the House passed the annual National Defense Authorization Act (HR 4310). As a senior member of the House Armed Services Committee, I worked closely with members of the Committee to craft a bipartisan bill that advances our national security objectives, establishes a robust national missile defense, and ensures that veterans and their families maintain access to the care and benefits they have earned through their service. This bill protects veterans and military families from a proposal by the Obama administration to increase most TRICARE enrollment fees and co-pays, and prevents the Administration from implementing new fees.

Under the Budget Control Act of 2011, across-the-board cuts known as a “sequester,” are scheduled to take effect next January, due to the failure of the bipartisan “super committee” to agree on a plan to cut federal spending. I voted against this law, which raised the federal debt ceiling and created the so-called “super committee,” because these cuts would place our national security at risk and have a detrimental effect on Wright-Patterson Air Force Base and our regional economy. Funding for the Department of Defense will be slashed by $500 billion, and certain domestic programs face an automatic eight percent across-the-board cut. The federal government must learn to live within its means and balance its budget, but our servicemen and women and their families need not shoulder the burden for Washington’s failure to budget responsibly.

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On May 10, 2012, the House passed, with my support, legislation that protects veterans programs from the sequestration and prevents these catastrophic cuts to our military (HR 5652). I have also cosponsored legislation (HR 1297) that prioritizes spending to ensure that our service members continue to receive their paychecks in the event of a government shutdown or if the debt ceiling is reached. Our troops risk their lives each day to serve our country and protect our national interests. The last thing they need to worry about is whether or not their paychecks will come home to their families on time.

The Veterans Retraining Assistance Program (VRAP) is now accepting applications from unemployed veterans aged 35-60, who may qualify for up to twelve months of training to learn a new skill or trade under the Montgomery GI Bill-Active Duty program. The VRAP is part of a new law, the VOW to Hire Heroes Act, which I cosponsored to help move unemployed veterans out of the unemployment lines and into the workforce. To learn more about the VRAP program, call 1-800-827-1000, or visit: http://www.benefits.va.gov/vow.

This Memorial Day, let us honor the millions who answered their country’s call to duty, especially those who made the ultimate sacrifice—the men and women of our armed forces who have made America the land of the free and the home of the brave.

Sincerely,
Michael R. Turner
Member of Congress

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Carillon Park & Dayton History's 2011 Heritage Festival

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Moving Mother to Fowler…

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Heading to Grandma's!

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IRS & Adoption!

You want to see what fun I am having with the IRS??

They are disputing Quintin’s adoption, and that I should never have claimed him as an adopted dependent to receive the earned “adoption credit” of $13,000 – which is something new for adoptive families.

This March, along with my completed taxes, I sent in, as requested by IRS, copies of:

  • his current birth certificate
  • adoption decree
  • Navajo pedigree document

In early May I received a letter stating I was being investigated for the adoption credit, and that my information on Quintin did not match up with their information.

When I called the one representative, she said that I could not claim him as a newly adopted son because:

  • there was no mother listed on the birth certificate (?)
  • his birth certificate clearly shows he was born April 1995 to me, and that he was, therefore, not adopted

I explained there were copies of the adoption decree, and of course, she did not have them.

I resent copies of all the papers, including his original birth certificate with items marked in “red” to indicate he had birth parents, and then me as his adoptive parent.

Today, I received a large envelope filled with items. They want even more proof – tons and tons of items!

  • a letter from the adoption agency on letterhead, explaining Quintin was adopted
  • a letter from the placing agency (New Mexico) on letterhead, explaining Quintin was adopted
  • a letter from the adoption attorney on letterhead, explaining Quintin was adopted
  • a letter from the tribe official on letterhead, explaining Quintin was adopted
  • the court decree (which will be the 3rd I’ve sent in!)
  • the Navajo pedigree (which will be the 3rd I’ve sent in!)
  • my marriage license (good luck on finding that one!)
  • letters from New Mexico
  • letter from last school to indicate he left
  • foster care agency to indicate he left

Quintin’s current

  • 2011 school records (to show 6 month’s attendance)
  • 2011 medical records from Ohio
  • any other 2011 education documentation to prove his residency

My residency papers

  • 6 months of 2011 utility receipts for electric, water, gas
  • 6 months of 2011 house payments
  • 6 months of 2011 telephone receipts (but cell phone is not acceptable, and we’ve not had land line for some time)

They sent me an EXAM that I must complete, by mail, to prove my residency in the USA, and Ohio – I’ve been a full-time USA resident since 1964, and in Ohio since 1990!

Good grief!

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Haasienda Grooming

The 2012 Haasienda Grooming is nearly done.

11:30am, the festivities began with running errands, and returning home to a solid six and one half hours of work.  We were so pumped over the accomplishments we didn’t realize it was long past lunch until the three hounds started their kitchen-prance for their 4:30pm feeding.

A new corner fence is now installed in the front yard, replacing the three-year old fence that had become a termite buffet.  We also added one to the back yard to prevent the pups from jumping from the deck directly into the yard, thus creating bare patches in the lawn.

Quintin was such a super help, and actually did a good portion with me.  He asked to plant the hostas, and impatiens, and then asked if he could create a brick border.  And plant, and create, he did!  I was proud of his hard work.

We ended the day by heading to the skate park so Quintin could enjoy a good 90 minutes of skate time.

And now I sit out on the deck, typing away, quite exhausted, but not wanting to waste a minute of fresh air, and some awake-quiet time.

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Twinkie in the saxophone…

My first year in 7th grade band at Elwood Junior High School, we were scheduled with the 8th grade band on the first day.  The saxophones were seated in front of the trumpets, and I was seated with 8th grade trumpets, Mick Helpling, Darrell Whitkamper, Brad Gillum and Dana Miller, directly behind me.  Since this was the first class with the 8th graders, I was excited, but very nervous.

As Miss Simmons gave instructions prior to warm-ups, I laid my alto saxophone across my lap.  I heard something hit the floor, but paid little attention.  Suddenly, I heard Mick Helpling say, “Look!  A Twinkie fell out of that kid’s saxophone.”

I was stunned.  Could the sound I heard and the comment from Mick have anything in common?  I allowed some time to pass, and with all the gumption I could muster, I casually looked to my left.

Sure enough, there was an individually wrapped Twinkie next to my foot.

I began sweating buckets, my stomach began churning, and I, always the good little band student, was blocking out everything Miss Simmons was saying.  I honestly cannot remember if I picked up the Twinkie, or let it remain on the floor.  Knowing my love for Twinkies, I doubt I left it there.  I don’t recall the 8th grade trumpets saying anything after that; if they did, I was probably too much in shock to have heard.

When I got home that day, Mother was standing in the kitchen.  I asked if she had stuck a Twinkie down the bell of my saxophone.  She tried to deny it at first, but finally gave way to guilty chuckles.  The only other culprit would have been my grandmother.

Thirty-five years later, I am still teased about the Twinkie in the saxophone.  Even this week, a student brought one to his lesson with the hopes of being able to place it in my saxophone.

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