A fall morning in Ohio…

I missed the double rainbow that everyone else seemed to capture this morning.  The sky, for a while, was a kaleidoscope of colors and textures as a divided rain cell moved in across The Miami Valley.

The reds, yellows and burnt-oranges are joining the palate of green that rises above the roof tops.  I captured several areas from the front porch, and the second floor.

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Mock trial finds Mary Todd Lincoln was not insane

Mock trial finds

Mary Todd Lincoln was not insane

Re-enactment at presidential museum finds former first lady wrongfully committed

By Jason Nevel

Posted Oct 01, 2012 @ 10:44 PM

SPRINGFIELD —

Jurors in 1875 made the wrong choice in committing Mary Todd Lincoln to a mental institution, a retrial of the famous case found Monday.

The re-enactment was held at the Abraham Lincoln Presidential Museum, with area judges serving as attorneys arguing for and against the widow of President Lincoln. The audience served as the jury.

In 1875, the nation’s former first lady was judged insane during a trial in Chicago and ordered to a Batavia sanitarium. She obtained an early release, and, one year later, another jury found her sane.

First Lady Mary Lincon

For more than 100 years, historians have debated whether there was enough evidence to ever commit Mrs. Lincoln to an institution. In Monday’s event, actors in period costumes portrayed Mary Todd Lincoln and her son Robert Lincoln, who filed the petition to have his mother involuntarily committed. The retrial lasted more than two hours.

The vote on whether to institutionalize the troubled first lady was 68 for and 159 against. A similar retrial was held Sept. 24 in Chicago. Audience members there also overwhelmingly disagreed with the initial verdict.

Beth Pendergast, a Springfield audience member, said she believed there was enough to prove Mary Todd Lincoln was insane based on her erratic behavior.

Historical accounts describe Mary Todd Lincoln as slowly going insane after the assassination of Abraham Lincoln and the death of three sons. However, some people argue Robert Lincoln was trying to protect the family’s reputation.

To open up the trial, Robert Lincoln, portrayed by Zach Kenney of Chicago, was questioned by a lawyer portrayed by Ronald Spears, a circuit judge in Christian County.

Robert Lincoln said his mother, for unknown reasons, thought he was ill and traveled from Florida to Chicago to see him. On the train ride there, she said someone tried to poison her coffee and steal her purse, he said.

While staying at a hotel in Chicago, Robert Lincoln further testified that his mother thought the city of Chicago was on fire, she could hear voices through the walls, and his mother thought he was going to kill her. There was also testimony about Mrs. Lincoln’s spending habits.

Having her committed was for her safety, Robert Lincoln said.

“I want to protect her and provide her the treatment she needs,” he said.

Mrs. Lincoln’s defense said she feared for Robert Lincoln’s safety because her three other sons had died of illness. Her actions were motivated by her desire to protect her surviving son, her lawyer said.

Actress Sally Field as First Lady Mary Todd Lincoln

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Singing when the evening comes…

My dear friend, Jeffrey Carter, posted a quote from his niece on his Facebook status:

“Whatever may pass and whatever lies before me, let me be singing when the evening comes.”

I took several favorite photos and applied this text.

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End of the season beauty…

The flowers and plants are in their seasonal transition.

The impatiens that were planted Mother’s Day weekend are now on their final journey.  They held up remarkably well through this summer’s drought, and are now beginning to lose their fullness as the cooler weather creeps in.

The mums are filling out nicely, and the transfer from bright reds, pinks, salmon and white to burgundy and yellow has been in progress for several weeks.  I hate to see the impatiens depart as they are my favorites.

Next Spring and Summer, I look forward to planting more impatiens, and enjoying my hostas, and Mary Todd daylilies that were remarkable for a first season’s planting.

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Closing the month with SEPTEMBER SONG

Many years ago, I learned this was a favorite of Mr. Joshua Logan, and it has become my favorite each September.  SEPTEMBER SONG, composed by  Kurt Weill, with lyric by Maxwell Anderson, was introduced in 1938 in the Broadway musical, KNICKERBOCKER’S HOLIDAY, directed by Mr. Logan.  The past several years I’ve become quite fond of Willie Nelson’s version and tend to listen to this the most.

Each September 1st, I listen to a recording of this song, and reflect on the past year as my birthday month begins.  This past year was one filled with tremendous joys, incredible advancements, some difficult but vital choices, and sadly, some deaths of incredible folks who had an impact on my life.

It is the end of September.  The days of this past wonderful Spring and Summer are now filed away in photo albums, and memory.

And the days dwindle down…

SEPTEMBER SONG

Lyrics by Maxwell Anderson

Oh, it’s a long, long while from May to December
But the days grow short when you reach September
When the autumn weather turns the leaves to flame
One hasn’t got time for the waiting game

Oh, the days dwindle down to a precious few
September, November
And these few precious days I’ll spend with you
These precious days I’ll spend with you

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Birthday week…

I was unbelievably blessed this week with many greetings, cards, and gifts.  Two of my middle school students tallied the Facebook greetings on my time line and counted 791 deliveries.  My cell phone, which only contains 102 contacts boasted 517 texts with birthday greetings.  Sadly, some did not identify themselves and I did not recognize phone numbers.  Still this morning, the gifts and cards continue to float in.

I am humbled, grateful, and feel deeply blessed.  Here is the greeting I posted on Facebook:

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48 Down…

At 6:03pm this evening, the exact time of my birth 48 years ago, I will officially commence my 49th year.  At 6:03pm, Mother will call, as she has every year since I left for college in 1983, to make it official.

Mother and I are the only remaining cast members from the premiere in September 1964.  My grandparents, great-grandparents, my birth father, the doctor, my uncles have all exited the stage following their bows.

For several days Mother had felt contractions, but knew it was not time.  In fact, she insisted on waiting until midnight before heading to the hospital.  Dr. Ulrey was hoping I would arrive on his birthday, September 24th – but that passed.  As midnight approached, Mother took a bath, while Grandma Donna sat in the kitchen timing each contraction.  When Mother was ready to go to the hospital, they woke my father to have him ready the car.  In his youthful nervousness, he drove the car up to the back porch!  Mother laughingly told him that she could walk the five blocks to the hospital.

Through the remainder of the night, and all Friday the 25th, the contracting-play continued without an intermission.  The new lead actor failed to report to the stage despite the anticipation from those assembled for the debut.

At 6:03pm, Friday evening, September 25th, 1964, I arrived.  I don’t recall the debut, and like Gracie Allen mused about her own birth, I was so surprised I didn’t talk for nearly nine months.

Forty-eight years have passed all too quickly.  Much has been packed into these 48 years, and despite the less happier moments, the brilliant moments always rise to the top to be counted as my many blessings.  No longer are my grandparents, and uncles here to celebrate with me, but their collective light shines around me always.

My mother, sons, brother, sister-in-law, nephews and niece are the center of my life, as are Aunt Jenny, several great uncles & aunts, and many, many cousins who have always enriched my life through the years.  And of course, my life has been, and will always be be blessed with my teachers and professors, dear personal and family friends, and countless students (past and present) and their families.

It has been a wonderful life, and I am truly grateful for these past 48 years.

Thank you…

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THE MIRACLE WORKER ~ An Experience

“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched – they must be felt with the heart.”

Theatre professor, Debra Bruch, in her chapter, “The Experience of Theatre” from the essay A Guide to Studying the Relationship Between Engineering and Theatre, explains

“From the very beginning of civilization, the theatre has helped us discover and understand ourselves and our relationship with our world, with others, and with God (or the gods.) As such, it is and always has been an affirming force in the world. As Ludwig Lewisohn (1882-1955) stated, “In all ages the drama, through its portrayal of the acting and suffering spirit of man, has been more closely allied than any other art to his deeper thoughts concerning his nature and destiny.” Unlike any other art, the total, intense focus of theatre is on the human being, his or her existence, and his or her relationship with life. It is a part of human nature to need to examine who we are in relationship with where we are. Consequently, basic elements of theatre and drama exist in every society.”

One thing I’ve not been able to escape these past several years is coasting.  Working from home and not doing as much theatre, as I did prior to raising my sons, has taken a toll on the soul at times.  Theatre has always been that regular injection that awakens, and continually drives my soul.  Yesterday was one of those days where I marveled at life, and being alive.  I rejoiced in the fact that, once again, I felt awakened within.

My dear friend, Suzanne Grote, and I decided to swing out to Wright State University to see THE MIRACLE WORKER at 2:00pm.  When we arrived at the box office we were told all seats were sold; however, if we wanted to wait a few minutes there would probably be some available seats, but probably not together.  Within a few minutes, the box office manager was waving us over, and presented us with two front row seats in the balcony, assuring us the view would be superb to take in the entire two story set.

For the next two and a half hours I was transported far beyond the marvelous story of Helen Keller, and her indomitable teacher, Annie Sullivan.  Within fifteen minutes I was no longer in a theatre on a college campus on the outskirts of Dayton, Ohio.  Before long, I was not even in Tuscumbia, Alabama in the Keller home.

The journey I experienced at Wright State was a kaleidoscope of

  • wanting to cheer
  • wanting to cry (Ok, I did at the end, and several times on my return home)
  • wanting to shake people
  • wanting to yell down my encouragement
  • wanting to butt heads together
  • wanting to hug individuals
  • wanting to pitch in during the dining room’s wrestling scene
  • understanding a parent’s gripping fear and desire to protect their child
  • feeling the heartache of not being able to fix your child
  • recognizing the frustrations of not being able to communicate as a parent
  • connecting to a fellow teacher’s joys, fears, frustrations, exhilaration
  • running into barriers that seem insurmountable
  • desiring that inner courage to knock down any and all barriers
  • feeling trapped and emotionally imprisoned
  • wondering if others truly understand or hear what I am saying
  • knowing there are times when I do not hear or see
  • knowing there are times when I feel dead inside
  • knowing that sometimes my world is dark
  • always wanting a little more time

When the cast came out for bows, I was overwhelmed with emotion in every corner of my world.  I wanted to hug each person down on the stage, not simply applaud them.  These young, fine actors, technicians, technical artists and designers, and director, Lee Merrill, surpassed anything I’ve ever experienced as an audience member in a theatre production.  They proved everything Debra Bruch stated above:

  • they helped me to rediscover and understand my self
  • they helped me to rediscover and understand my relationship with my world
  • they helped me to rediscover and understand my relationship with others
  • they helped me to rediscover and understand my relationship with The Great Spirit

As Act II commenced I realized that my spiritual veins were unclogging.  The deafness that dampened the music of my soul was lifting.  The blindness that had kept me from truly seeing the world around me, and my place in it, was fading.  My desire to forever let my spirit sing had returned.

At 48, I think I fully understand my mentor’s passion for theatre, and for living.  Mr. Joshua Logan seemed to radiate joy, and when he was in discussion about theatre, he was almost angelic in his complete transformation.  His sparkling eyes seemed to peer beyond the present into a euphoric world that is nothing short of magical.

One thing that Mr. Logan insisted upon was that in order for a play/musical to truly succeed the protagonist(s) must change before the audience’s eyes – not from behind the curtain.  In order for the audience to feel a deeper connection to the protagonist’s journey, it must grow with the protagonist throughout the production.

Sunday afternoon, I, as an audience member, changed right along with each character in Mr. Gibson’s play.  I feel as though I accomplished each change experienced by each character.

Upon our return from dinner, I spent most of my evening re-reading the Helen Keller and Annie Sullivan stories on line.  I researched the Keller family, their Alabama home named Ivy Green, Annie Sullivan, and everything associated with this magnificent story.  But all the further obtained knowledge could not even begin to compete with what had awakened me earlier.

The moment at the water pump/well.

Thank you, Wright State University Theatre Department, for guiding me to the return of my own life’s water pump/well.

The original water pump at the Keller home in Alabama.

The original water pump at the Keller home in Alabama.

 

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A Saturday at the Sea

This Saturday morning had a nice little twist to it.  We were up, showered, dressed, and out of the house by 9:45am, and eating breakfast at Panera in downtown Centerville where we were joined by Amy Kress, and her youngest daughter, Sarah, 6.  We moved next door to Town Hall Theatre to watch an 11:00am production of Disney’s adorable stage musical, LITTLE MERMAID, starring my piano student, Katie Kress, as Scuttle.  Katie was hilarious, cute, and did an amazing job with her terribly wordy patter song, “Human Stuff.”  Many other stage performers around could learn a thing or two about perfect diction from this 10 year old!  She rocked her consonants!

Quintin and I did the meet and greet following the show, and then hurried to the newly opened Mernards on OH-741, South of the Dayton Mall  where the original Walmart once stood.  It was incredible, but horribly crowded.  We loaded up on a few things and checked out.

At 2:00pm I attended a funeral of a student’s grandmother.  I will probably have two more this week: the grandfather of a student, and the mother of a former student who has been moved to Hospice.

I managed a quick nap upon my return home, and then we were out the door again.  We grabbed dinner at China Buffet, a shower curtain from Big Lots, and then purchased movie tickets at The Greene for FINDING NEMO in 3D.

With time to kill before the movie, we ventured over to Books & Company.  I quickly found a book on President Lincoln, LOOKING FOR LINCOLN: THE MAKING OF AN AMERICAN ICON.  Despite finding two errors in the book within five minutes, I still decided to purchase the photo-filled book.

FINDING NEMO was a delight!  Quintin and I laughed, and laughed a lot.  We marveled at the beauty of the 3-D effects, and were caught up in the journey of a father searching for his son.  Very neat.

The movie was followed with some ice cream at Cold Stone Creamery.

This day was absolutely perfect!  Quintin and I laughed so hard throughout the day, and by dinner our conversation incorporated our Russian accents.  There were times when we were both doubled over with laughter, and tears filling our eyes.  This reminded me of when I was 17, and all the fun times I had, and still have, with my own mother, and my grandparents.  Humor, and even plain silliness is a great form of glue!

It was a swimmingly good day!

Quinny checking out the new Justin Bieber calendar.

 

Quinny sporting his new hat from Menards.

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Sally Field as Mary Todd Lincoln

Now that the trailer for Spielberg’s LINCOLN has been released, a civil war has broken in the ranks of many Lincoln devotees.  Two Facebook groups to which I belong have already begun snipping away at the barely three second snippet of Sally Field portraying the embattled, oft wrongly accused and misunderstood first lady, Mary Todd Lincoln.

Immediately, the self-proclaimed critics were saying “Sally Field is too old” or “Sally Field is too thin” or adding other criticisms that are quite far-fetched.

How many actors or actresses are ever the exact same age as the stage, or screen character they portray?  And, is this really all that important?

When you compare Mary Todd Lincoln’s White House daguerreotypes to the youthful looking Sally Field’s photos, they do seem to balance out.  Mrs. Lincoln, by our contemporary standards, looks much older than her early to mid-forties White House years.  In the photograph of the 64 year old actress portraying Mrs. Lincoln, their 20 year separation in ages does seem to be a piddly thing about which to gripe.

If we shall be this picky, and critical, every actress portraying Mrs. Lincoln should always have the same waist size, stand the exact same height, have blue eyes, etc..

I also believe that Ms. Field’s work cannot be based on a very tiny clip from the trailer.  That is just a bit sophomoric.

Why not wait for the movie’s release?

Why not go see the movie in November and then cast all the stones you wish?

Once you have seen the movie, then those with a corseted waistline and same height as Mrs. Lincoln can cast all the individually wrapped Dolley Madison snack cakes they wish.  But, before you do, ask your self – “Was Ms. Field’s portrayal honest to the accounts written about Mrs. Lincoln?”  (But remember, the choices for Mrs. Lincoln’s portrayal could also be a combination of the director’s image.)

Mary Tyler Moore & Sam Waterston as The Lincolns

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Music, Music, Music…

Saturday at Noon, Quintin was already over at the high school for marching band practice.  I took the time to complete some errands around the house, and yard, and then headed North to Tipp City for the first marching band competition of this season.

Aaron Jacobs met me at the contest, and we got to enjoy several competing bands in Fairmont’s class.  Fairmont took the field with this year’s show, “Waterworks.”  The results for Fairmont’s marching band were:

1st place in Class AA

Overall General Effect

Overall Visual

Overall Music

Grand Champion

Qualification for OMEA State Finals

The cool air of the night had lulled me to sleep quite easily, and I slept soundly.  Sunday morning, and early afternoon, was relaxing, and quiet.

At 3:30pm we were seated next to Debbie McCutcheon under the ‘welcome tent’ for GuitarFest 2012.  What an incredible collection of some of the most outstanding guitarists from the Miami Valley, and beyond.  Quintin was in heaven.  In fact, he wanted to stay when I had to leave at 7:00pm so I could return home to teach a lesson.  He stayed, and Debbie took him to Marion’s Pizza with the rest of the crew, and I picked him up following my lesson.  I am so grateful to the performers for reaching out to my son with all their talent, and so many different styles and genres.  I so appreciate these extraordinary musicians!  THANK YOU for sharing!

What a great weekend to celebrate music!

Marching Band photos courtesy of Pati Rogers

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Toasting a Great Aunt… with an Onion

Tonight, I am quite certain there is a good deal of laughter in heaven now that my great-aunt, Shirley Richardson Humphrey, has arrived.  If there seems to be a shift in celestial activity, it is probably because all the guardian angels have abandoned their posts to catch a story Aunt Shirley is telling, or just to be in her presence.

Aunt Shirley, along with her nieces (also, my cousins), Cathy Richardson and Sherry Richardson, was one of my babysitters.  As a young boy, I enjoyed my time with her, and my cousins, Mike, Greg and Lisa.  Aunt Shirley was one of the most darling people I’ve ever known.  Her smile always made one feel as though they were the only person in the entire world, and her warm hugs were always uplifting.

One day, when Aunt Shirley was babysitting me, I stood on a kitchen chair at the sink while she peeled and chopped onions.  The tears streamed down her face as she continued chopping.  Lisa came into the kitchen, and immediately panicked when she saw her mother crying.

“Mom!  What’s wrong?” Lisa exclaimed.

Aunt Shirley raised her arm and wiped away the flowing tears on her shirt sleeve.  “It’s just the durned onions.”

For years, this memory has made me chuckle each time I chop up an onion.

Aunt Shirley suffered from Alzheimer’s.  It was infuriating to watch this hideous disease imprison such a bright, vibrant soul.  It seemed cruel.  Still, when sitting with her at Uncle Dave’s funeral, Aunt Shirley’s responses were so adorable.  Here is a bit of our conversation:

Darin:  Hey, Aunt Shirley.

Shirley:  Well, how are you?

Darin:  Just fine.  And how are you doing?

Shirley:  Good. Good.  Who are you?

Darin:  I am Danny’s son.

Shirley:  Oh!  Ok.  Now who’s Danny?

Darin:  Your nephew.  Rosemary’s son.

Shirley:  That’s right.  Who’s Rosemary?

Darin:  Your sister.

Shirley:  This is just great.  I have a nephew and now a sister.

[Uncle Bob, Shirley’s brother sits, next to her]

Bob:  Hey Sis.

Shirley:  [Turns to me]  Here we go again.

Bob:  I’m your brother, Bob.

Shirley:  Of course you are.

Bob:  You remember me?

Shirley:  Well, of course, I do.  You just told me you were my brother.

It could not have been better scripted, nor performed, by Gracie Allen.  The delivery was priceless.

Despite the fact my great-aunt was no longer remembering me, I was grateful her adorable personality had not yet been stolen from her.

Tonight, many people feel a sense of loss.  But, man, oh man, are the angels howling with laughter.  I am sure even they are feeling quite blessed tonight.

May adorable angels sing thee to thy rest, my dear aunt…

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O, say can you see…

About this time (7:00am), 198 years ago, Francis Scott Key saw the flag flying over Fort McHenry in Baltimore’s harbor. This moment became the inspiration for “The Star Spangled Banner” which became our National Anthem.

On September 14, 1814, U.S. soldiers at Baltimore’s Fort McHenry raised a huge American flag to celebrate a crucial victory over British forces during the War of 1812. The sight of those “broad stripes and bright stars” inspired Francis Scott Key to write a song that eventually became the United States national anthem. Key’s words gave new significance to a national symbol and started a tradition through which generations of Americans have invested the flag with their own meanings and memories.

And still we can see
As the years have gone by,
There’s a dream in our land

Like a flame that keeps burning.And the lantern of hope
From the harbor still shines.
Those who seek freedom’s dream
To its light are still turning.Now we look to the stars
And we lift up our eyes,
For we know with the dawn
We will see our Flag rise.

And this is our spangled
Banner yet wave,
O’er the land of the free
And the home of the brave.

 

 

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Last hints of summer…

The weather could not have been more beautiful this past weekend, and this week.  Sunny skies, cooler temperatures, some hint of life returning in lawns, and the plants look a little perkier.

The back yard has been neglected, so I tidied it up a bit this weekend, and planted some burgundy mums on the grassy knoll and around Logan’s grave.

The burgundy mums around the corner fence are budding, as are the yellow ones on the Southern side of the front lawn.  Amazing how beautiful the lawn can be when some things aren’t trampling it.

One clematis bloom hangs on, hiding in the shadows of the mums.  I am sure it will be the last bloom for this season.

Flyer, at 11, is still perky, and loves joining me out front for her sniff-fest each day.

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A Day With Wonderful Friends…

Ahhh…

A fantastic day it was!

Susan Cook

Susan Cook

Breakfasted with Debbie McCutcheon before attending the funeral of our friend, and fellow music teacher, Susan Cook.  Susan was a bright spirit, had a loving nature, and a passion for teaching clarinet and saxophone to her many students.  Along with this, she was a phenomenal clarinetist.  Though only 61 years old, she began battling Alzheimer’s Disease quite some time ago.  Sadly, her beloved Granny, age 100.7 years, with whom she had lived and also shared an apartment in assisted living,  passed away one month to the day before Susan.  Her journey on earth is over, but her spirit of music will live on for eternity through all her students, and their children.

I spent more time with Debbie after the funeral, and then had a great time with Quintin, listening to some Johnny Cash songs, and some things he has been teaching himself on guitar.

We hurried to The Greene to watch RAIDERS OF THE LOST ARK (in IMAX) with Loretta & Rick Henderson, along with the eldest of their two extremely beautiful daughters, Kayla, and Rick & Retta’s nephew, Dan Bergeron. This is the first time I have seen the Hendersons in several years – yeh – they live 20 minutes away in Huber Heights, we live in Kettering – this is life with teenagers.

Since Rick & Retta and I are the same age (yes, Rick, you are the younger of this trio – I shant forget), we saw it at age 16 as high school students.  What a difference 20… um… 25… ooops… 30…. dang… 31 years makes! It was so fun watching it with all these friends.

Quintin is off to a party/sleepover. I will put away the pork shoulder and sides for tomorrow night’s dinner.  Since I am spending time alone tonight, I will probably research the making of RAIDERS, and Composer John Williams.  Although I hate not having Quintin home, it is somewhat nice to sit back to enjoy some quiet reading time (but wait… I did this same thing last weekend!).

Thank you, Debbie, Retta, Rick, Kayla, & Dan for making my day all the more rich with your presence, and joyful souls.

And, dear Susan… sleep well, dear lady ~ may marching bands of angels play Thee to Thy rest…

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Labor Day Weekend has arrived…

One of my favorite weekends of the year is upon us: the Labor Day weekend.

This morning I went out front to hang the banners, given me by my neighbor lady, Kay Moore.  And keeping with tradition, Flyer had her photo taken out front.  This year, Navi and Chief were allowed on the porch – without leashes – to begin their annual tradition of photos on the porch.

 

 

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Justin Scott Haas…

Justin Scott Haas

11 May 1988 – 24 August 2012

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First Marching Band Step-Off, 2012

My favorite part of the marching band season, and each home game, is the traditional Step-Off at 6:45pm.  The band lines up in front of the Performing Arts Wing and marches through the neighborhood to our stadium about three blocks away.  As the band winds its way around the school’s campus, tailgaters and other fans join in behind the band.  At the stadium, the band marches under the stadium bleachers with the drums pounding away.  The excitement in the stands matches the energy from the teenage marchers.

Up in the stands, I generally sit with Tony & Angela Bane, and Paula Bennett.  Now, that the Bennetts currently have no children in the high school marching band, Don, the marching band’s former photographer, has joined us.  And he brought his Lutheran pastor!  How cool is that?

Although I am not a football fan, I do enjoy these moments.

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Young's Dairy!

We spent a fun few hours with family friends, Aaron Jacobs, and Suzanne Grote and her niece, Erin, and six year old nephew, Jackson.  Delicious ice cream, and such fun laughing!

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WIZARD OF OZ takes on The Dayton Dragons!

A big thank you to Felicia Dellis who offered free tickets she was given to the Donato’s Family Night at Fifth-Third Field where our Dayton Dragon’s play.

The weather was perfect all day, and the evening, even hanging in the mid-70’s, was excellent.  Hundreds of families – of all ages – gathered at the stadium to watch THE WIZARD OF OZ on the big screen.  Some families camped out on the field with blankets, while many gathered in the stands.

I enjoyed watching parents with their children, almost as much as I enjoyed watching several near us who were probably in their late 60’s or older.  These folks had probably grown up with the movie that came out 74 years ago, yet, they were captivated by the movie.  It was really a neat moment.

Whomever designed the graphics for the stadium’s side panel did a superb job!  The accompanying side panels extended the Gale farm, Munchkinland, the Yellow Brick Road, the Emerald City, and the Witch’s Castle.  When the Wicked Witch would appear, the side panels flared with burning red flames.  These effects really added much to the movie throughout.  Bravo!

Quintin and I had a great time howling at the Cowardly Lion’s deliveries, and watching some of the bloopers I pointed out along the way.

The older I get, I find that my infatuation with this movie deepens, and the lessons increase.  What a beautiful product!

This was an evening of sheer perfection!

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One heck of an angel… Susan Fortner

Good neighbors are blessings.

Growing up in Elwood, Indiana, I was blessed with wonderful neighbors.

Across Ninth Street were the Myricks, Luther and Ida, who grew up in the hills of Kentucky and Tennessee. To the West were the Herndons, Dick, Betsy & Carter, to whom we were (and still are) distantly related through our Hope, Indiana connections.  To the South, and across the alley were the Fortners, Don, Susan, Jason, and Laura.  This little core of neighbors, and friends, has always been a warm memory linked to my youth.

The Fortners moved in around 1975.  I believe Susan was expecting their daughter, Laura, who was born on my brother’s birthday, November 4th.  Don was the new printing teacher at Elwood’s vocational school, and proved to be one of the most endeared teachers for many, many years.

At age ten, I already stood a good foot taller than Susan, but that still did not limit her in beating me in a game of H-O-R-S-E at their driveway’s basketball court.  Once, a saleslady came to their door, and asked Susan if she could speak to the ‘woman of the house.’  It took Susan several minutes to convince the lady she was the wife and mother!  Despite her petite size, she was a dynamo of energy, and youthfulness.

One of my first paid jobs was babysitting Jason and Laura on Friday nights while Don and Susan attended Bible study.  I was familiar with their house from spending time there with previous owners: Dutch & Kate Wolff, Nick & Kathy Wolff, and the Cole family.  When I babysat the Fortner children, who were my younger siblings’ ages, I always washed up the supper and snack dishes.  Susan always insisted that I leave the dishes, and always shared with me how when she was a babysitter she always left the dishes unwashed, even when she had made pizzas while on the job.  Still to this day, I chuckle at this memory, for I could never picture Susan leaving a mess, especially in someone else’s home!

As a teenager, Susan was diagnosed with lupus.  Her concrete faith, adorable humor, and insatiable energy never seemed to reveal the battles that raged within the tiny, seemingly fragile frame.  I don’t ever recall her complaining, or even hinting that some days were more of a struggle.  The facade of courage, and  strength, could never hide her perseverance.  Despite the masked health issues, Susan never shirked from demonstrating a true servant’s heart.

The Herndon family moved to South Anderson Street in the late 1970’s, and our family moved from the corner of 9th & Main Streets in 1984.  The Fortners are the only family remaining in the neighborhood that was my youth’s home.

Last night, August 15th, a few minutes before midnight, our neighborhood coterie grew a little smaller when Susan adjusted her new halo, and strapped on her angelic wings.  What our world lost, heaven gained.  I am sure there was a good deal of anticipation above, for the choirs of angels already knew Susan Fortner was truly one of them – long before the order for her halo and wings was prescribed.

Though tears have traced lines down my cheeks this morning, a very large, appreciative smile spreads across my face.  Seldom do we recognize when we have come in contact with angels.  But I know!

I got to play H-O-R-S-E with one!

May choirs and marching bands of musical angels sing Thee to Thy rest, Dear Neighbor Lady!

Photographs courtesy of Don Fortner’s Facebook albums.

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First Day of School…

The traditional morning photos were taken…

  

Flyer and I waited out front to greet Quintin…

I got a volunteered, excited report from the first day’s events!

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A Nice Weekend…

Mother arrived Thursday morning with the hopes of attending the marching band’s parent show featuring accomplishment from the week of camp.  Due to threatening storms the parent show was canceled, and we picked Quintin up from the dorm.

We journeyed across the street from Wright State University to a Mexican restaurant where we were joined by Aaron Jacobs, Brian & Joanie Pollock, and Zach.  We had an absolute blast as we shared stories and tons of laughter for several hours.

Friday was a relaxing low-key day. In the evening we drove up to ACTION Adoption Services to drop off some papers, and to look over the newly remodeled offices. They are bright and airy!

We finished the evening with a dinner at The Starlight Diner and Cafe in Kettering.

Saturday was more time on the deck chatting, and then we joined Joanie and Brian Pollock for breakfast.  Mother and I ran some errands, and returned home for naps, television, and chatting.

In the evening, we drove to Subways near the Dayton Mall, and took our dinner to Cox Arboretum to evening the gorgeous weather and scenery.

We then drove through Hills & Dales Park so Quintin should show Grandma the Witches Castle.

Mother will return to Fowler in the morning.  We have some mowing and trimming to do, and I will try to take Quintin to the skate park to unwind a bit.

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Walk & Talk…

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Judging…

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