In October 2011, as my cat, Logan, prepared for her journey to Rainbow Bridge, I adopted what would become a personal tradition. I took off her collar when I sensed she was near her end.

I did the same with my dogs, Flyer and Navi, in 2013, five months apart.

I take off the collar for two reasons: 1) it gives the beloved dying family member permission to take leave, to take their eternal rest; 2) it allows myself to enter into the spirit of release, and farewell.

Bailey has continued participating in family life, eating and drinking, and still wiggling. This evening, I entered my bedroom and she was unresponsive, but still breathing. She eventually roused and began licking her leg but I fear the time of farewell is approaching.

Tomorrow, Monday, December 25, 2023, is Bailey and Harrigan’s tenth anniversary of their Gotcha Day. They arrived late Christmas night, a few days following Navi’s passing.

This evening, I was prompted to remove Bailey’s collar. The other pooches are subdued and I am certain they understand what is transpiring.

Godspeed, my dear Miss Wigglesbottom…